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makhro82|1317063173|3026031 said:missy|1317062147|3026017 said:makhro82|1316969354|3025113 said:It seems that a lot of times the giver will get what they want the recipient to have, but who is it for? Why are the typical rules of gift giving out the window when buying an engagement ring? Typically when someone gets you a gift they choose something they believe you would enjoy. I feel that if it is something that I am hoping to wear the rest of my life I should have some input and get what I want. I know getting the recipient involved ruins the element of surprise, but if you are close to getting engaged you've probably been pointed in the right direction dozens of times and probably don't even need to get them involved. What happens when you get a ring you don't like? I know marriage is not about the ring, but I happen to feel it is a very important thing!
What are your thoughts?
Good luck!
Haha I got what I(we) wanted! We worked on it together from beginning to end. The proposal was still a surprise though.
Congratulations makhro!!
Off to search for your ring thread!
ETA: oooh, beautiful ring!!