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Is anyone else feeling fearful with what’s happening?

thank you dear Autumn, we are past the worst of it with Gary but its terrible with no Sue
i have been taking not of all the jeweller the hospital staff wear and yesterday i found time to clean my silver chain before i put it on

sorry to go off topic people
im not reading the doom and gloom in the news today, i might be home in time for the news tonight
the thing that upset the whole hospital the most (including Gary) was when that plane in India fell on the med school student accomidaion, we also have lots of lovely nurse who came from India
i havnt hesrd anyone mention 'someone' or any middle Eastern hot spots since we went to hospiatl

When you're feeling better and things have clamed, head over to the rainbow thread... I tagged you in a post. Hugs!
 
Certainly sorry to hear about the familial tragedies and challenges of our forum colleagues. Prayers for your families. On the other topic, my take is that the U.S. is taking steps to stop Iran from getting a nuclear weapon because that would seriously shake up the Middle East, trigger other countries to build nukes, and make things more dangerous and unstable for the region. Right now, the U.S. isn’t rushing into war—it’s backing Israel’s targeted actions and using diplomatic pressure to keep Iran in check. This approach shows strength without going all-in on conflict, and it helps keep things stable while discouraging Iran from crossing the line. It’s not perfect, but given the alternatives, it’s the smartest move available. If Iran were to get a nuclear weapon, there is little doubt they would use it, which is unconscionable, as would be the responses.
 
i have a slightly diferent perspective as this has all been going on as Gary has been fighting for his life in CCU with septis
i went a few days not looking at the news at all
i never doubted he would not pull through but the doctors tell you the worst
as this was going on his son was planning his wife;s funeral as she had just passed away unexspectadly

usually im a news junky but all i could concentrate on was Gary, and as best we could Aaron, Gary's now widowed son, alas we could do not one thing to help him at his saddest time except to pray that Gary got better, for Aaron, i told every nurse and doctor Gary had to get better for Aaron

one morning at home i was looking for my clean nickers i was going to put on and i thought id misplaced them, they had been right in my hand a minute ago
i looked for them for ages
only to discover after 10 minutes of flunderling aimlessly i already had them on

we can not control everything
you sometimes have to take baby steps and just concentrate on your own life,your imediate loved ones
the world will have to take care of its self today or this morning or even just for a few hours as you concentrate on things you do have influence over and can fix

as scary as the world is right now dont let it consume you or you will go insane and that will not help anybody

Sweet hugs to you, beautiful. Sending lots of healing vibes across the miles to Gary & also, of course, his son.
 
Certainly sorry to hear about the familial tragedies and challenges of our forum colleagues. Prayers for your families. On the other topic, my take is that the U.S. is taking steps to stop Iran from getting a nuclear weapon because that would seriously shake up the Middle East, trigger other countries to build nukes, and make things more dangerous and unstable for the region. Right now, the U.S. isn’t rushing into war—it’s backing Israel’s targeted actions and using diplomatic pressure to keep Iran in check. This approach shows strength without going all-in on conflict, and it helps keep things stable while discouraging Iran from crossing the line. It’s not perfect, but given the alternatives, it’s the smartest move available. If Iran were to get a nuclear weapon, there is little doubt they would use it, which is unconscionable, as would be the responses.

Agree
We (the USA and the world) are at risk
Israel is fighting for the safety of us all

The people of Iran support what Israel is doing
They are working to save the people of Iran and of the whole Middle East and Europe and even the US
The only hope for peace is a nuclear free Iran

We must stop the cycle of radicalism, violence and hate
 
@Daisys and Diamonds continuing to keep you and your loved ones in my thoughts and prayers
I am so sorry for your loss
Gentle hugs to you and Gary sweet Nicky
 
The people of Iran support what Israel is doing

I read an two opinion pieces stating the opposite. That the Iranian people are enraged by the attack because foreign interference including Netanyahu's attack set back the slow progress the Iranian president and the people of the country were making toward changing the influence of their repressive religious leaders.
 
I read an two opinion pieces stating the opposite. That the Iranian people are enraged by the attack because foreign interference including Netanyahu's attack set back the slow progress the Iranian president and the people of the country were making toward changing the influence of their repressive religious leaders.

I’m going to share a source considered reputable by ps. Iran is an oppressive regime who kills their citizens for speaking out.

 
I’m going to share a source considered reputable by ps. Iran is an oppressive regime who kills their citizens for speaking out.

This isn't one of the pieces I referred to earlier but it touches on some of the fears Iranians have about what comes next. What worries me is that regime toppling in the ME doesn't have a good track record.

"'The more recent 21st-century history of US adventurism in the Middle East has inspired further scepticism among Iranians.

“Look at Libya, Afghanistan, Iraq – they destroyed the countries, then walked away. It’s funny how they call this ‘exporting democracy’ while they always have paralysed all the democratic institutions in those countries,” Abbas*, a 26-year-old artist from west Tehran, said."'

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2...apple-with-us-and-israeli-regime-change-plans
 
i have a slightly diferent perspective as this has all been going on as Gary has been fighting for his life in CCU with septis
i went a few days not looking at the news at all
i never doubted he would not pull through but the doctors tell you the worst
as this was going on his son was planning his wife;s funeral as she had just passed away unexspectadly

usually im a news junky but all i could concentrate on was Gary, and as best we could Aaron, Gary's now widowed son, alas we could do not one thing to help him at his saddest time except to pray that Gary got better, for Aaron, i told every nurse and doctor Gary had to get better for Aaron

one morning at home i was looking for my clean nickers i was going to put on and i thought id misplaced them, they had been right in my hand a minute ago
i looked for them for ages
only to discover after 10 minutes of flunderling aimlessly i already had them on

we can not control everything
you sometimes have to take baby steps and just concentrate on your own life,your imediate loved ones
the world will have to take care of its self today or this morning or even just for a few hours as you concentrate on things you do have influence over and can fix

as scary as the world is right now dont let it consume you or you will go insane and that will not help anybody

@Daisys and Diamonds, thank goodness Gary pulled through. You have such faith and strength. You were right to remind the doctors. I am so sorry to hear about Gary’s son’s loss. Praying for you all/:cry2: IMG_0108.jpeg
 
I do not follow news or watch any tv. I don't really know what's going on. I know months ago that my country was a target. Maybe still is idk. I mostly feel like Kenny. I wish there was some way to have a person declared unfit, but I guess there isn't. I just can't even imagine any of this stuff happening in the past. Where is the simple dignity and decorum? Is this the way the world is now? My kids are grown and one cannot have children and the other at 35 does not want any. So it's all just day to day for us. But I'll be very honest, regardless of ? how you feel about what's going on, Canada has judged you all in a bad way. It's not fair, but we've never been treated or scared this badly. It does not reflect my personal feelings at all.
 
Iran has been under close watch this whole time by the IAEA and the JCPOA. Even the current DNI, Tulsi Gabbard, recently has testified what our own Intelligence Community under the annual threat assessment has found:

“The IC continues to assess that Iran is not building a nuclear weapon and Supreme Leader Khamenei has not authorized the nuclear weapons program that he suspended in 2003,” she told the committee bluntly. Gabbard was echoing an assessment that U.S. intelligence agencies have been making since 2007.


An Israeli general just rage quit an interview with Sky News because he was proven to be lying about Israel's actions and the civilian deaths in Gaza and now, Iran by a journalist who was on the ground as it happened.
They are using the same tactics Hamas/Hezbollah is using targeting civilians and claiming to be different. Tens of thousands are dead in consequence.


It has nothing to do with whether Israel should exist. They should, there is no question. That doesn't mean that their government are to be absolved of all wrongdoing.
These continued actions do make it very hard for the world to continue to defend their government's position and current course.
 
I’m scared. I’m sick to my stomach.

And when the dust settles,
When cities lie in ruins.
When families are broken
When entire generations are wiped.
When futures are erased.
When even worse regimes rise from the ruins.

Who walks away with the profit?

Not the people.
Not the dead.

But the weapons dealers.
The contractors.
The politicians whose portfolios quietly grow.

It’s always the same.

War…or genocide isn’t a tragedy for everyone.
For some, it’s a business model.

And here we are,
Fed the illusion that wars are for our safety.
For the safety of the free world.

Mad, war-hungry men run the world, all in the name of keeping us safe.
How lucky are we.
Truly.
 
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I do not follow news or watch any tv. I don't really know what's going on. I know months ago that my country was a target. Maybe still is idk. I mostly feel like Kenny. I wish there was some way to have a person declared unfit, but I guess there isn't. I just can't even imagine any of this stuff happening in the past. Where is the simple dignity and decorum? Is this the way the world is now?

Lyra, Please know many of us feel exactly like you do. We are disgusted and embarrassed by what has become acceptable. It hurts to know this is what our country chose and make no mistake we all had a choice. Most of us know what respect, character, integrity, decency and decorum mean.


Canada has judged you all in a bad way. It's not fair, but we've never been treated or scared this badly. It does not reflect my personal feelings at all.


Many of us would not blame you if you did feel the way many Canadians feel. A great deal of us have great respect and care about your country and Canadians. I’m sorry Lyra, for the things the country I live in has done and how they have treated Canada.

Please know I’m trying to word this in a way so I don’t get banned here.
 
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The apologists will be along shortly.

I'm disgusted, angry, and sick. I'm sure the whole world is, too....with one exception.
 
How does this happen!
 
Peacemaking at its finest, baby! The art of the deal!
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How does this happen!

Because people like my brother and all those from where I came (rural America aka “flyover country”) are ALWAYS rounded up and shown some “patriotic” figures and told that their ancestors fought for their women’s and children’s and their own freedoms!

And by “people” I mean those who are the actual dregs of society. If that’s an insult to my brother, so be it. He was forced to enlist a long time ago, right before Desert Storm. That’s what they do to these guys—they threaten them with either prison or learning how to kill.

This entire comment of mine will be banned soon, I’m sure. I have never felt safe as an American on this site.

I came back to post some beautiful pearl studs from a very popular man. Let’s see if I’m still blacklisted. (Because I know I am. Might as well blow this shit up, too)
 
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