Date: 1/7/2009 10:03:58 AM
Author: decodelighted
Date: 1/7/2009 9:43:03 AM
Author: Pandora II
I just think it''s a little sad that people who own unique/custom/antique pieces may well think twice about posting them in detail in future.
Since you feel free to discuss what the OP should & should not have done ... I''ll say that I think it was in very poor taste to crash that woman''s thread on behalf of anyone. And I think its ''a little sad'' that someone would avail themselves of the assistance, support and positive aspects of PS when it was convenient for *them* only to later balk at being generous & actively diminish the positive feelings of someone who seemed to have no ill will at all ON THEIR OWN THREAD. That is, if she asked you to post. If you posted about her feelings without her permission, I''ll stand corrected.
Change has come to one clique. Indeed.
Thanks a ton Skippy! It posters like you that I miss a ton. I''m not sure I''ll post pieces anymore after the last fiasco, but I''m slowly starting to lurk and post, and it''s good to be back a lil. Happy New Year!Date: 1/7/2009 10:37:12 AM
Author: Skippy123
CR, you have a gorgeous ring and I look forward to see what you have made by Mark and please post it when done.![]()
Ah, thanks,I like you too and Happy New Year to you too and yes, please stick around!!!Date: 1/7/2009 10:41:58 AM
Author: CrookedRock
Thanks a ton Skippy! It posters like you that I miss a ton. I'm not sure I'll post pieces anymore after the last fiasco, but I'm slowly starting to lurk and post, and it's good to be back a lil. Happy New Year!Date: 1/7/2009 10:37:12 AM
Author: Skippy123
CR, you have a gorgeous ring and I look forward to see what you have made by Mark and please post it when done.![]()
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Aw, don't let anybody keep you from posting pics. Seriously.Date: 1/7/2009 10:41:58 AM
Author: CrookedRock
Thanks a ton Skippy! It posters like you that I miss a ton. I'm not sure I'll post pieces anymore after the last fiasco, but I'm slowly starting to lurk and post, and it's good to be back a lil. Happy New Year!Date: 1/7/2009 10:37:12 AM
Author: Skippy123
CR, you have a gorgeous ring and I look forward to see what you have made by Mark and please post it when done.![]()
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Date: 1/7/2009 10:49:24 AM
Author: Ellen
Aw, don''t let anybody keep you from posting pics. Seriously.Date: 1/7/2009 10:41:58 AM
Author: CrookedRock
Thanks a ton Skippy! It posters like you that I miss a ton. I''m not sure I''ll post pieces anymore after the last fiasco, but I''m slowly starting to lurk and post, and it''s good to be back a lil. Happy New Year!Date: 1/7/2009 10:37:12 AM
Author: Skippy123
CR, you have a gorgeous ring and I look forward to see what you have made by Mark and please post it when done.![]()
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Besides, I wanna seeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.![]()
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Author: CrookedRock
Ironically, for me my thread kinda changed the way I looked at my ring. I worked very hard to design something that was completely my own. Had someone copied it right off the bat, I would have been upset. A week or so ago I saw a thread that had almost an exact replica of my ring with a little variation. For about .5 secs I felt a twinge of something... bitterness maybe. But then I realized that it is a compliment that someone would like, let alone purchase something that you have. (Note: that was not the case with this particular ring, it was not copied, another vendor sells something similar.) Ultimately, I am happy for that poster. I know the joy I get from looking at my ring and admiring its beauty... Everyone deserves that!
Ditto.Date: 1/7/2009 10:03:58 AM
Author: decodelighted
Since you feel free to discuss what the OP should & should not have done ... I''ll say that I think it was in very poor taste to crash that woman''s thread on behalf of anyone. And I think its ''a little sad'' that someone would avail themselves of the assistance, support and positive aspects of PS when it was convenient for *them* only to later balk at being generous & actively diminish the positive feelings of someone who seemed to have no ill will at all ON THEIR OWN THREAD. That is, if she asked you to post. If you posted about her feelings without her permission, I''ll stand corrected.Date: 1/7/2009 9:43:03 AM
Author: Pandora II
I just think it''s a little sad that people who own unique/custom/antique pieces may well think twice about posting them in detail in future.
Change has come to one clique. Indeed.
How many people can I ditto on this thread?Date: 1/7/2009 10:03:58 AM
Author: decodelighted
Since you feel free to discuss what the OP should & should not have done ... I''ll say that I think it was in very poor taste to crash that woman''s thread on behalf of anyone. And I think its ''a little sad'' that someone would avail themselves of the assistance, support and positive aspects of PS when it was convenient for *them* only to later balk at being generous & actively diminish the positive feelings of someone who seemed to have no ill will at all ON THEIR OWN THREAD. That is, if she asked you to post. If you posted about her feelings without her permission, I''ll stand corrected.Date: 1/7/2009 9:43:03 AM
Author: Pandora II
I just think it''s a little sad that people who own unique/custom/antique pieces may well think twice about posting them in detail in future.
Change has come to one clique. Indeed.
Date: 1/7/2009 1:17:10 AM
Author: Allison D.
I have to say I believe this is the first day I''ve truly missed my chainsaw since retiring it nearly a year ago.
That said, I''m going to speak from my heart.
I wouldn''t have enough fingers on my own hands to tick off the COUNTLESS number of posters over the years who came to Pricescope, fell in love with ''Mara''s ring'' and modeled their set(s) after hers. It would take a full village''s worth of hands to even come close. At that time, no one else on Pricescope had a set of rings like hers. (Her ring, by the way, wasn''t her own design either but inspired by the ring her local jeweler''s wife wore.) I don''t think it ever would have occurred to her to become upset with another poster for copying ''her'' ring.....thank God. That''s just not what Mara was about, and it''s not what Pricescope has been about during these many years either.
When I finally commissioned my halo pendant (which itself was partially inspired by a Ritani piece I''d seen), a ton of folks commented that they''d love to own a pendant like that. I was beyond flattered. When Lisa decided to look into having one made, she actually got in touch with me to ask if I''d mind. I couldn''t believe she even felt she had to ask; it was a nice courtesy on her part, but totally unnecessary. I couldn''t imagine being offended by such a request; in fact, I encouraged her to do so by sending my pendant to her chosen jeweler to help make it happen!
In Belle''s case, she DID actually create her own unique design in collaboration with Irina.....and that was NO easy feat. There isn''t much in the jewelry business that hasn''t been tried before, and yet they settled on an arrangement the likes of which no one had ever seen before. It never even occurred to me that Belle would be anything less than completely gracious about others'' interest in that pendant, and she did not disappoint. I can''t imagine it would have ever crossed her mind to deny someone else the opportunity to enjoy the design as well.
ETA: I''ve seen multiple owners of the Bellerina pendant since then, and do you know who I think of every time I see it? Yep....Belle. It''s no less hers for having shared it.![]()
The copyright argument is a red herring; the ring wasn''t designed by the owner. Further, SS as the jeweler doesn''t have a shred of obligation to call the ring owner. She didn''t create the design she wears and she doesn''t have ''veto'' power over his business just because she''s a client/fan. As others have pointed out, he likely didn''t even conceive that it could be . I know it wouldn''t occur to me, and given the several responses in this thread, that assumption would be correct most of the time.
This site has always been about SHARING....sharing knowledge, sharing ideas, sharing information, and yes.....sharing inspiration. I cannot even begin to understand how anyone could find offense or injury because some other random individual in the world was wearing a similar piece of jewelry....especially when the two are unlikely to cross paths in real life! I don''t see how denying someone else the same pleasure I''d had (finding a given design that spoke to me) would make me feel good; in fact, I''m quite certain I''d feel terrible.
I''m disheartened, dismayed, outraged and ashamed at the disservice that was done to the poor poster today who came here to share her excitement over her ring.
Thritto. And Ditto. And - yeah. When I posted the first time I hadn''t seen the original thread. I find it very, very sad that the situation arose at all, and that PT''s thread was crashed.Date: 1/7/2009 11:15:00 AM
Author: TravelingGal
How many people can I ditto on this thread?Date: 1/7/2009 10:03:58 AM
Author: decodelighted
Since you feel free to discuss what the OP should & should not have done ... I''ll say that I think it was in very poor taste to crash that woman''s thread on behalf of anyone. And I think its ''a little sad'' that someone would avail themselves of the assistance, support and positive aspects of PS when it was convenient for *them* only to later balk at being generous & actively diminish the positive feelings of someone who seemed to have no ill will at all ON THEIR OWN THREAD. That is, if she asked you to post. If you posted about her feelings without her permission, I''ll stand corrected.Date: 1/7/2009 9:43:03 AM
Author: Pandora II
I just think it''s a little sad that people who own unique/custom/antique pieces may well think twice about posting them in detail in future.
Change has come to one clique. Indeed.
So, let me get this straight. It''s OK to post your ring and have countless people say ''I LOVE YOUR RING!'' and stroke your ego, but it''s not OK for anyone to get inspiration from it? Give me a bloody break. This has been unbelievably petty...and I''m using the nicest word I can find.
I was totally disgusted that PT''s thread was even crashed to let SG''s feelings be known.
I would like to think that PSers are as beautiful inside as the rings they wear. Perhaps not in all cases.
As many said, it wouldn''t be unreasonable for to be a bit miffed if someone IRL copied your design exactly, especially if it was unique. But on the Internet? On a jewelry forum. Holy sh*t.
Alj, I love that you can still be you. So true what you said. How many people copied Mara''s ring, to her delight and her assistance with the project? How many people here have been happy to help others find inspiration? Give me your chainsaw woman.
And Coati, just a shout out to you for being so gracious about your ring, which has been one of the most unique I''ve seen on here in a while. I love it...it''s hands down my favorite ring and I dream someday about asking if you don''t mind if I use it for inspiration! But it will always be first and foremost a Coati ring and a tribute to your fantastic taste.![]()
Count me in on that!!Date: 1/7/2009 10:49:24 AM
Author: Ellen
Aw, don''t let anybody keep you from posting pics. Seriously.Date: 1/7/2009 10:41:58 AM
Author: CrookedRock
Thanks a ton Skippy! It posters like you that I miss a ton. I''m not sure I''ll post pieces anymore after the last fiasco, but I''m slowly starting to lurk and post, and it''s good to be back a lil. Happy New Year!Date: 1/7/2009 10:37:12 AM
Author: Skippy123
CR, you have a gorgeous ring and I look forward to see what you have made by Mark and please post it when done.![]()
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Besides, I wanna seeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.![]()
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Date: 1/7/2009 11:15:00 AM
Author: TravelingGal
How many people can I ditto on this thread?
So, let me get this straight. It's OK to post your ring and have countless people say 'I LOVE YOUR RING!' and stroke your ego, but it's not OK for anyone to get inspiration from it? Give me a bloody break. This has been unbelievably petty...and I'm using the nicest word I can find.
I was totally disgusted that PT's thread was even crashed to let SG's feelings be known.
I would like to think that PSers are as beautiful inside as the rings they wear. Perhaps not in all cases.
As many said, it wouldn't be unreasonable for to be a bit miffed if someone IRL copied your design exactly, especially if it was unique. But on the Internet? On a jewelry forum. Holy sh*t.
Alj, I love that you can still be you. So true what you said. How many people copied Mara's ring, to her delight and her assistance with the project? How many people here have been happy to help others find inspiration? Give me your chainsaw woman.
And Coati, just a shout out to you for being so gracious about your ring, which has been one of the most unique I've seen on here in a while. I love it...it's hands down my favorite ring and I dream someday about asking if you don't mind if I use it for inspiration! But it will always be first and foremost a Coati ring and a tribute to your fantastic taste.![]()
CR, when this issue popped up, I immediately thought of you since you put so much effort into your ring and it turned out beautifully and I suspected many people got inspiration from your ring (it''s stunning!). I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that you get joy from looking at your ring because of what that ring means for you. You and your fiance should be very proud of that and I''m really glad that you were flattered when Mark told you that customers had been calling him after seeing your ring. I can''t wait to see what this next project (wedding band, maybe?Date: 1/7/2009 10:33:57 AM
Author: CrookedRock
I couldn''t agree with everything Allison D. has said more. I was so upset for PT that her thread was overshadowed. It was done to me as well and I know how that can turn someone off from PS, it did for me. I am glad that it was stopped, and this thread was started, and I really hope the damage hasn''t been done.
Ironically, for me my thread kinda changed the way I looked at my ring. I worked very hard to design something that was completely my own. Had someone copied it right off the bat, I would have been upset. A week or so ago I saw a thread that had almost an exact replica of my ring with a little variation. For about .5 secs I felt a twinge of something... bitterness maybe. But then I realized that it is a compliment that someone would like, let alone purchase something that you have. (Note: that was not the case with this particular ring, it was not copied, another vendor sells something similar.) Ultimately, I am happy for that poster. I know the joy I get from looking at my ring and admiring its beauty... Everyone deserves that!
As far as the ring that started this discussion... Well it''s beautiful. PT did nothing wrong, nor did Ari. That ring was not designed by SG therefore it is not her place to say if it can be remade or not. If I had choosen to put a patent on my ring and then it was remade, well then I have a right say and do something... That''s not the case here. There is no reason why 2 women cannot have the same beautiful ring and enjoy it.
**Sidenote: I have been speaking with Mark at ERD working on antoher project. In passing he mentioned to me that every now and then there a comes a ring that grabs all sort of attention. Apparently mine did that for a few of his customers bc he told me he had been contacted by multiple people to see if it could be recreated. I was on cloud nine that day. I couldn''t have been more flattered!
Hehehe, thanks Coati. I doubt I will be the only one. And anyway, you have gorgeous hands so even an exact replica would never look as nice on me!!!Date: 1/7/2009 11:37:19 AM
Author: coatimundi
Ditto your dittos-haha!
Thanks very much TGal!Use it--no need to ask![]()
--and very thoughtful of you. I appreciate it! (This thread is teaching me a lot about graciousness--very good)
Yes. And I wonder just how many more rings are out there just like it. I highly doubt it''s a one of a kind.Date: 1/7/2009 11:42:34 AM
Author: TravelingGal
Seriously someone get me some meds or something...I''m still sitting here agape.
Someone tell me why someone has any rights over a ring because she had the good fortune to walk into a store, see a ring she loved which already existed, and buy it.
I''m thinking back to all the inspiration given over the years...and the /jewelrythat came from them. Belle''s pendant, which cause a huge swoon. Not only did she give WF rights to remake it, but the proceeds went to CHARITY. Reena''s ring which started the halo craze. Lovey''s ring which probably really made people look at asschers. Or what about the JCrow e-ring head reset? People really began to figure out what they wanted in a 6 prong head - and the ''buttercup'' craze was born. How many people have Kaleigh''s 3 stone Leon? The list probably goes on and on.
PS is a forum for sharing and knowledge. Not showing off and gloating. Maybe it''s better that people who don''t understand that not post.
Date: 1/7/2009 11:42:34 AM
Author: TravelingGal
Seriously someone get me some meds or something...I''m still sitting here agape.
Someone tell me why someone has any rights over a ring because she had the good fortune to walk into a store, see a ring she loved which already existed, and buy it.
I''m thinking back to all the inspiration given over the years...and the /jewelrythat came from them. Belle''s pendant, which cause a huge swoon. Not only did she give WF rights to remake it, but the proceeds went to CHARITY. Reena''s ring which started the halo craze. Lovey''s ring which probably really made people look at asschers. Or what about the JCrow e-ring head reset? People really began to figure out what they wanted in a 6 prong head - and the ''buttercup'' craze was born. How many people have Kaleigh''s 3 stone Leon? The list probably goes on and on.
PS is a forum for sharing and knowledge. Not showing off and gloating. Maybe it''s better that people who don''t understand that not post.
Date: 1/7/2009 11:15:00 AM
Author: TravelingGal
And Coati, just a shout out to you for being so gracious about your ring, which has been one of the most unique I''ve seen on here in a while.
Date: 1/7/2009 11:15:00 AM
Author: TravelingGal
How many people can I ditto on this thread?Date: 1/7/2009 10:03:58 AM
Author: decodelighted
Date: 1/7/2009 9:43:03 AM
Author: Pandora II
I just think it's a little sad that people who own unique/custom/antique pieces may well think twice about posting them in detail in future.
Since you feel free to discuss what the OP should & should not have done ... I'll say that I think it was in very poor taste to crash that woman's thread on behalf of anyone. And I think its 'a little sad' that someone would avail themselves of the assistance, support and positive aspects of PS when it was convenient for *them* only to later balk at being generous & actively diminish the positive feelings of someone who seemed to have no ill will at all ON THEIR OWN THREAD. That is, if she asked you to post. If you posted about her feelings without her permission, I'll stand corrected.
Change has come to one clique. Indeed.
So, let me get this straight. It's OK to post your ring and have countless people say 'I LOVE YOUR RING!' and stroke your ego, but it's not OK for anyone to get inspiration from it? Give me a bloody break. This has been unbelievably petty...and I'm using the nicest word I can find.
I was totally disgusted that PT's thread was even crashed to let SG's feelings be known.
I would like to think that PSers are as beautiful inside as the rings they wear. Perhaps not in all cases.
As many said, it wouldn't be unreasonable for to be a bit miffed if someone IRL copied your design exactly, especially if it was unique. But on the Internet? On a jewelry forum. Holy sh*t.
Alj, I love that you can still be you. So true what you said. How many people copied Mara's ring, to her delight and her assistance with the project? How many people here have been happy to help others find inspiration? Give me your chainsaw woman.
And Coati, just a shout out to you for being so gracious about your ring, which has been one of the most unique I've seen on here in a while. I love it...it's hands down my favorite ring and I dream someday about asking if you don't mind if I use it for inspiration! But it will always be first and foremost a Coati ring and a tribute to your fantastic taste.![]()
I still about fall over every time I see this beauty.Date: 1/7/2009 11:53:48 AM
Author: Skippy123
Deb, she reset it. Here is the gorgeous reset! Swooooooooooooooon![]()
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Phew! That was the shot/meds I needed. Thanks!Date: 1/7/2009 11:56:25 AM
Author: geckodani
I still about fall over every time I see this beauty.Date: 1/7/2009 11:53:48 AM
Author: Skippy123
Deb, she reset it. Here is the gorgeous reset! Swooooooooooooooon![]()
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