beezygal
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Hey ladies... I just need to vent... I can't talk to anyone about this except for you ladies.
Even though we're not engaged yet, we decided to kinda plan our wedding. Today, I came up with a guest list with my mom. I thought it would be good to know approximately how many people might come. The list comes to 58 people, including my friends, his friends and my parents' friends. We'll probably end up with less than 58 people. I don't know how many people from his family might come since his mom doesn't get along with any of them. (His mom is very very nice to me though.) My bf was shocked at how many people I came up with. Since we're have another banquet in another country, my bf keeps saying it's going to be expensive. My dad offered to pay for the banquet in the other country because it's for our family. I don't want that. I want to pay for it with my bf. I don't think my bf would be ok with that anyways. My bf is a very very cheap guy. I guess it's kinda a good thing since he cares about his money A LOT. He said he doesn't want to talk about the wedding. Then, he said... "why are we even doing this? We're not even engaged." I was thinking that we'll talk about it eventually, does it matter if we're talking about it now or later? I can't believe we're having an argument about it already. Now he doesn't want to talk to me about anything at all. He was watching tv WHILE talking to me. We were supposed to look at one venue on Sat. Now, he said he has to work and can't go. I don't know if he's really busy or he's just mad. I'm so upset. I want to cry.
What if he realized that he doesn't want to have a wedding or to get married?
Even though we're not engaged yet, we decided to kinda plan our wedding. Today, I came up with a guest list with my mom. I thought it would be good to know approximately how many people might come. The list comes to 58 people, including my friends, his friends and my parents' friends. We'll probably end up with less than 58 people. I don't know how many people from his family might come since his mom doesn't get along with any of them. (His mom is very very nice to me though.) My bf was shocked at how many people I came up with. Since we're have another banquet in another country, my bf keeps saying it's going to be expensive. My dad offered to pay for the banquet in the other country because it's for our family. I don't want that. I want to pay for it with my bf. I don't think my bf would be ok with that anyways. My bf is a very very cheap guy. I guess it's kinda a good thing since he cares about his money A LOT. He said he doesn't want to talk about the wedding. Then, he said... "why are we even doing this? We're not even engaged." I was thinking that we'll talk about it eventually, does it matter if we're talking about it now or later? I can't believe we're having an argument about it already. Now he doesn't want to talk to me about anything at all. He was watching tv WHILE talking to me. We were supposed to look at one venue on Sat. Now, he said he has to work and can't go. I don't know if he's really busy or he's just mad. I'm so upset. I want to cry.
What if he realized that he doesn't want to have a wedding or to get married?