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This was what I meant when I said that I hope you don't have people breaking the news before you're ready. It enrages me when things like this happen, and the family and friends often don't even all know before things are all over social media. People who aren't even in the inner circle are making it all about themselves, and the widow and close family can't even get time to themselves.
You wear whatever the f$ck you want! All of it, none of it, upgrade it or buy a honker to go with it. Whatever. You. Want.
Your family and friends will get you through the services and the next however long you need them. Right now you will need them all the most, and you reach out to anyone, all of us, any of us, any of them, as much as you need to. In a few months it might be less of a crushing blow, but there will be moments you need them again. You're going to find out who your true friends are and who really counts.
I love you, ame. I hope that PB listens to you and rainwood and allows her own feisty spirit to rule the day. It isn't her job to please anyone when she has just lost her husband!!!