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Re: Help with problematic engagement ring nearing exchange d
Honestly- I REALLY REALLY wouldn't do it. That's $100 (not including a stone) that you could put towards something you DO like, especially if money is tight and there's no room for mistakes.
Now, my ebay hunting skills suck but:
That's half of this:
http://www.ebay.com/itm/330793338897?ssPageName=STRK:MESINDXX:IT&_trksid=p3984.m1436.l2649
http://www.ebay.com/itm/Antique-Victorian-65ct-Garnet-Diamond-14k-Gold-Ring-/400342630058?pt=US_Fine_Rings&hash=item5d3647beaa
Or about 1/5 of this (without considering best offer...)
http://www.ebay.com/itm/230765901438?ssPageName=STRK:MESINDXX:IT&_trksid=p3984.m1436.l2649
And I'm sure the real sleuths could help you out if you wanted. All you'd have to do is ask.
alyssak|1355111422|3327293 said:Well, I did not make it to the jewelry store where my fiance bought the ring yet. The receipt clearly says exchange only, and I didn't want to go in there not knowing what I wanted to do, plus my weekend got very busy. I looked through the Stuller catalog, and I didn't see anything I wanted there. As pretty as some things are, contemporary jewelry isn't really to my taste, and I don't have anyone who would like such a gift (though that was also a great idea). My fiance isn't interested in getting a band at this point, either.
But, what I did do is go to Intergem today!
I started off at Effin Gillim and spent the majority of my time there. I liked them the best of all the vendors I saw. The perfect ring wasn't there, and nothing was inexpensive, but I thought the prices were really reasonable and the quality was very high. They had the widest range of antiques, some of which are stunning, and were generous with their time. I'll post a few pics shortly.
I went to Prima gems too. I was somewhat shocked to be disappointed with what I saw in real life, compared to the lovely photos I've seen on here for years. Perhaps it's a limitation of budget (and it's true, they had no small stones to show me), or imagination, but I wasn't in love with the Mahenge spinels I saw. Regarding an option for my current ring, aside from the fact that Prima are likely too high end, I actually liked the blue zircons the best. They were super sparkly.
Then I went to some random, large gem vendor which sold lower-priced stuff. They had every kind of inexpensive gem under the sun, in great quantity.
Following is a picture of a filled ruby, sitting upside down in my ring, to give me a sense of what it would look like. It was 30 minutes before the show closed, and they said that they would sell it to me and set it for 75 dollars, and walked me to the very harried jeweler, who mentioned something about "diamonds flying everywhere" if he cut my ring (as he would use the existing prongs). I was tempted but I really know nothing about their stones, and I was worried about the jeweler rushing.
What do you guys think about the overall look? I am leaning toward keeping the ring, and getting a super cheap treated ruby put in it, for no more than 100 dollars work included, if I can, even if I have to wait. I wouldn't want to put more than that into this ring, value-wise and I'm assuming that the store won't give me cash back for it. I'm somewhat regretting that I didn't do it at the show.
sorry it's blurry, I have a video but I don't think I can post it here?
Honestly- I REALLY REALLY wouldn't do it. That's $100 (not including a stone) that you could put towards something you DO like, especially if money is tight and there's no room for mistakes.
Now, my ebay hunting skills suck but:
That's half of this:
http://www.ebay.com/itm/330793338897?ssPageName=STRK:MESINDXX:IT&_trksid=p3984.m1436.l2649
http://www.ebay.com/itm/Antique-Victorian-65ct-Garnet-Diamond-14k-Gold-Ring-/400342630058?pt=US_Fine_Rings&hash=item5d3647beaa
Or about 1/5 of this (without considering best offer...)
http://www.ebay.com/itm/230765901438?ssPageName=STRK:MESINDXX:IT&_trksid=p3984.m1436.l2649
And I'm sure the real sleuths could help you out if you wanted. All you'd have to do is ask.