Engagement Ring “downgrade” in size “upgrade” in specs

[Efleon]

So my e-ring for 18 years is a MRB 2.64 carat H color SI1. GIA cert.
It has a lot of personality but honestly the color has always bugged me.
I considered resetting it but nothing really made me jump up and down.
I feel sentimental about the stone until I found something today that rocked my world.
It’s a Tiffany Lucida 2.34 carat E color VS2.
The icy whiteness just captivated me along with the cut and honestly it didn’t feel all that much smaller.
Would my fellow PS-ers think I’m gaga nutty to trade...um, “down” in size for a Tiff?
PS-I’ve read almost every thread on everyone’s thoughts on not spending the premium for Tiffany but my deep dark inner secret is that I’ve always wanted one!
There, I finally said it out loud!
The fact that this is pre-loved Tiff levels the brand-name playing field issue a little.
So my question is really more ....am I batshit crazy?

 

[twosanguinehearts]

Hi! Is the top photo the Tiffany? I don’t think it’s crazy at all to sacrifice a little size for other specs that might matter more to you! People do it all the time! You’ll definitely see a nice difference between an E and an H!

 

[Efleon]

Hi! Is the top photo the Tiffany? I don’t think it’s crazy at all to sacrifice a little size for other specs that might matter more to you! People do it all the time! You’ll definitely see a nice difference between an E and an H!

Yup, the top is the Tiff.
Thank you.
Big decision so it will need a lot of thought!

 

[diamondseeker2006]

The Tiffany is a beautiful ring! I wouldn't mind having that ring, especially pre-loved. I'd probably do it if I could keep the original setting (which I love!), and get a lab diamond (higher color) to go in that setting. Then, you have the best of both worlds!

 

[RockFox]

I say the heart wants what the heart wants. If you love the colour, and the value for a pre-loved piece - is good, go for it

 

[Efleon]

The Tiffany is a beautiful ring! I wouldn't mind having that ring, especially pre-loved. I'd probably do it if I could keep the original setting (which I love!), and get a lab diamond (higher color) to go in that setting. Then, you have the best of both worlds!

I hadn’t thought of that!
Good idea.

 

[Efleon]

I say the heart wants what the heart wants. If you love the colour, and the value for a pre-loved piece - is good, go for it

Yes. It’s all been vetted out as authentic. Laser inscription. Tiffany certificate. Tiffany appraisal. Receipt.

 

[nala]

Will you be paying a significant amount for this trade? Does cost factor in?

 

[Efleon]

Will you be paying a significant amount for this trade? Does cost factor in?

He’s getting me final numbers but no, from what we have discussed so far it is totally doable for me.

 

[NicoleNeedsHelp]

You only live once. Buy it!! We can’t take our money with us

 

[nala]

He’s getting me final numbers but no, from what we have discussed so far it is totally doable for me.

Then it sounds like an opportunity! I would totally do it! Sounds like you have a chance to finally get your dream ring!! Awesome! I fantasize about an emerald cut bc I’ve been drawn to elongated and elegant looks, step cuts BUT I fear I will miss the performance of my round so I know that I’m not ready to do anything that. All this to say that it sounds like you have considered it all???

 

[Efleon]

You only live once. Buy it!! We can’t take our money with us

Then it sounds like an opportunity! I would totally do it! Sounds like you have a chance to finally get your dream ring!! Awesome! I fantasize about an emerald cut bc I’ve been drawn to elongated and elegant looks, step cuts BUT I fear I will miss the performance of my round so I know that I’m not ready to do anything that. All this to say that it sounds like you have considered it all???

Wow thanks for the “ atta girl”!
I’m totally smitten but need to sleep on it to make sure I’m ok with the sentimentality of the trade.....

 

[tyty333]

I think the Lucida is beautiful! I dont have an issue with upgrading stats and downsizing size. I assume you had them both there to compare? Looking forward to seeing what you decide!

 

[NicoleNeedsHelp]

Wow thanks for the “ atta girl”!
I’m totally smitten but need to sleep on it to make sure I’m ok with the sentimentality of the trade.....

Keep BOTH??

 

[Morenita21]

So my e-ring for 18 years is a MRB 2.64 carat H color SI1. GIA cert.
It has a lot of personality but honestly the color has always bugged me.
I considered resetting it but nothing really made me jump up and down.
I feel sentimental about the stone until I found something today that rocked my world.
It’s a Tiffany Lucida 2.34 carat E color VS2.
The icy whiteness just captivated me along with the cut and honestly it didn’t feel all that much smaller.
Would my fellow PS-ers think I’m gaga nutty to trade...um, “down” in size for a Tiff?
PS-I’ve read almost every thread on everyone’s thoughts on not spending the premium for Tiffany but my deep dark inner secret is that I’ve always wanted one!
There, I finally said it out loud!
The fact that this is pre-loved Tiff levels the brand-name playing field issue a little.
So my question is really more ....am I batshit crazy?

If it made your heart sing, do it!

 

[Efleon]

I think the Lucida is beautiful! I dont have an issue with upgrading stats and downsizing size. I assume you had them both there to compare? Looking forward to seeing what you decide!

Yes.
On the same finger.
I’m not sure I took that pic but it honestly looked very close size wise.

Keep BOTH??

HaHa! Wishes were horses I would ride.

If it made your heart sing, do it!

 

[jaysonsmom]

The Tiffany is a beautiful ring! I wouldn't mind having that ring, especially pre-loved. I'd probably do it if I could keep the original setting (which I love!), and get a lab diamond (higher color) to go in that setting. Then, you have the best of both worlds!

Great idea! @Efleon, that way you have the best of both worlds. I did something similar for my 20th anniversary, and ended up with 2 beautiful sets.

The Lucida, though squarish, is not really step cut, I believe it is brilliant cut in the pavilion, my best friend was shopping for one years ago, and it is really beautiful worn on its own. I do think you'll miss your classic round though, so @diamondseeker's idea to replace your current mrb with a Lab Grown in similar size to replace your round is the best idea ever.

 

[canuk-gal]

HI:

@diamondseeker2006 makes a good point. These are two different stones/rings/looks. It is entirely possible to miss your MRB.

At any rate, in choosing such a beautiful, preloved, vetted , Lucida Tiffany ring you are not "losing" anything. It is easy to love such a stunning ring, while your color concerns assuaged. You want a change. Nothing here is diminished.

cheers--Sharon

 

[Dancing Fire]

Would my fellow PS-ers think I’m gaga nutty to trade...um, “down” in size for a Tiff?

If you must have it then go for it!

 

[Diamond Girl 21]

As others have said, follow your heart. I personally traded down in size for better cut, color, and clarity. I absolutely have no regrets.

 

[bludiva]

So my e-ring for 18 years is a MRB 2.64 carat H color SI1. GIA cert.
It has a lot of personality but honestly the color has always bugged me.
I considered resetting it but nothing really made me jump up and down.
I feel sentimental about the stone until I found something today that rocked my world.
It’s a Tiffany Lucida 2.34 carat E color VS2.
The icy whiteness just captivated me along with the cut and honestly it didn’t feel all that much smaller.
Would my fellow PS-ers think I’m gaga nutty to trade...um, “down” in size for a Tiff?
PS-I’ve read almost every thread on everyone’s thoughts on not spending the premium for Tiffany but my deep dark inner secret is that I’ve always wanted one!
There, I finally said it out loud!
The fact that this is pre-loved Tiff levels the brand-name playing field issue a little.
So my question is really more ....am I batshit

not crazy! It’s a different look, which one gives you more warm fuzzies? They both have nice presence on your hand

 

[Efleon]

Great idea! @Efleon, that way you have the best of both worlds. I did something similar for my 20th anniversary, and ended up with 2 beautiful sets.

The Lucida, though squarish, is not really step cut, I believe it is brilliant cut in the pavilion, my best friend was shopping for one years ago, and it is really beautiful worn on its own. I do think you'll miss your classic round though, so @diamondseeker's idea to replace your current mrb with a Lab Grown in similar size to replace your round is the best idea ever.

Agreed. Im giving serious thought to whether I will miss the MRB....

HI:

@diamondseeker2006 makes a good point. These are two different stones/rings/looks. It is entirely possible to miss your MRB.

At any rate, in choosing such a beautiful, preloved, vetted , Lucida Tiffany ring you are not "losing" anything. It is easy to love such a stunning ring, while your color concerns assuaged. You want a change. Nothing here is diminished.

cheers--Sharon

I do think I have reconciled myself to admitting I love a square/step/cushion shape and am color sensitive even after all this time!

As others have said, follow your heart. I personally traded down in size for better cut, color, and clarity. I absolutely have no regrets.

Thank you DiamondGirl

not crazy! It’s a different look, which one gives you more warm fuzzies? They both have nice presence on your hand

Fuzzies=Tiffany
Sentiment...still thinking....

 

[Heidibrooke]

I don’t think it’s crazy at all. I’m returning a much smaller H diamond, just too warm for me. So I think it makes sense to go for an E. Both are beautiful though!

 

[Efleon]

I don’t think it’s crazy at all. I’m returning a much smaller H diamond, just too warm for me. So I think it makes sense to go for an E. Both are beautiful though!

 

[FL_runner]

The Tiffany is a beautiful ring! I wouldn't mind having that ring, especially pre-loved. I'd probably do it if I could keep the original setting (which I love!), and get a lab diamond (higher color) to go in that setting. Then, you have the best of both worlds!

Great idea, or a colored stone that fits the original setting!

 

[Dmndsr4evr11]

So my e-ring for 18 years is a MRB 2.64 carat H color SI1. GIA cert.
It has a lot of personality but honestly the color has always bugged me.
I considered resetting it but nothing really made me jump up and down.
I feel sentimental about the stone until I found something today that rocked my world.
It’s a Tiffany Lucida 2.34 carat E color VS2.
The icy whiteness just captivated me along with the cut and honestly it didn’t feel all that much smaller.
Would my fellow PS-ers think I’m gaga nutty to trade...um, “down” in size for a Tiff?
PS-I’ve read almost every thread on everyone’s thoughts on not spending the premium for Tiffany but my deep dark inner secret is that I’ve always wanted one!
There, I finally said it out loud!
The fact that this is pre-loved Tiff levels the brand-name playing field issue a little.
So my question is really more ....am I batshit crazy?

Nope , you’re not crazy. If it’s what you really want then go for it. If I had the funds, I will just keep both .

 

[Lovecarats]

Nope, not crazy at all. You like what you like.

 

[monipod]

The Lucida is beautiful so it's a no-brainer for me! I don't think you'll notice the size difference when you really love the stone.

 

[oncrutchesrightnow]

I traded down in size from 2 cts. I-color to 1 ct. F color and was much happier.

 

[McLaren]

The heart wants what the heart wants!
Also, the whiter colour may make it appear slightly larger than a lower colour of the same size.