I'm hoping you guys can help me out, I found a setting I love and now I'm trying to pick a stone, and my bf and I are complete newbies to the diamond world. I've been looking around PS for a while gathering information, but I still need some help. When it comes to clarity and color, which one should be compromised first? I'm not exactly 100% sure what his budget is, but I'm looking for something 1.5ct range or up (1.4 is the lowest I'd like to go - like everybody else I'm sure, I want a big stone, but I want it to be a good quality one more importantly), in the 7-9k range, no higher than 10k (as low as possible though). I keep reading that si clarities are acceptable, and a vvs1 is not necessary, however when I look at a stone's GIA report and see all the little red dots and lines I immediately get turned off from the stone. Am I being way to critical considering these inclusions are typically at a 40x magnification? Are there certain types of inclusions I should try to stay away from? Any help would be greatly appreciated.