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I agree with the others who said to be sure the depression isn''t related to some physical cause.
But as one who has passed that birthday you dread, certainly I can say that I didn''t look forward to it. But it is what it is, and we just have to deal with it as well as we can! I think staying busy is important because it helps keep our minds off of it.
I was very thin all my life with zero effort until I gradually started putting on weight in my mid-40''s. I guess I am 30 pounds or so over what I''d realistically like to weigh. But food is one of my real pleasures in life, so I don''t want to sacrifice that! And exercise, well, that has been a habit that I have never developed, unfortunately. So that gets me down as much as anything. I always wear make-up and color my hair. I''d feel much better if I could make myself lose the extra weight. I just don''t enjoy buying clothes now.
All that said, I am helped through my faith, which reminds me that I am on a path to a far better place! I try to remember that when I realize how fast the time is passing!
But as one who has passed that birthday you dread, certainly I can say that I didn''t look forward to it. But it is what it is, and we just have to deal with it as well as we can! I think staying busy is important because it helps keep our minds off of it.
I was very thin all my life with zero effort until I gradually started putting on weight in my mid-40''s. I guess I am 30 pounds or so over what I''d realistically like to weigh. But food is one of my real pleasures in life, so I don''t want to sacrifice that! And exercise, well, that has been a habit that I have never developed, unfortunately. So that gets me down as much as anything. I always wear make-up and color my hair. I''d feel much better if I could make myself lose the extra weight. I just don''t enjoy buying clothes now.
All that said, I am helped through my faith, which reminds me that I am on a path to a far better place! I try to remember that when I realize how fast the time is passing!