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Rough_Rock
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- Feb 11, 2015
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Thank you so much everyone. I sat down with my husband this morning and we discussed everything in great detail that was said here and came up with several action plans. I have asked the site to take down this (my previous) thread-- (I don't know if I did it correctly--I reported the post and included a note?-- please someone let me know if there is another way)
I would like everybody to know we COMPETELY appreciate your advice-- it is all cut and pasted into a personal document for reference
He just feels ( and I agree) that since this escalated so quickly with two different companies involved we don't want to add another thing to it. A mistake on our part and I deeply apologize if I have offended anyone. I own that. Everything that I have said has been true-- But I have let my frustrations get the best of me and it's unfair to take it our soley on JM- I AM upset and I DO feel we were blown off, but the blame is not all on them, This is equally JM, Jared and OUR fault. I take responsibility for some of the situation--we should have understood or policy better-- that's on us.
With both of us coming from families that are very big on jewelry, I have been asked several times in the past few weeks were is my ring is--not only setting off my frustrations but many bouts of tears and anxiety. We didn't want to explain what was going on to anyone in our lives-- Mainly for embarrassment purposes and frankly because they all would have been to nosy--without any consideration for our feelings and any helpful information- The support and advice on this board has been my saving grace because my real life support system (besides my fabulous husband) is slim to none. This may not be an "important" problem to the world but it is in OUR world.
This being said if JM at any point does step in and "help" or take over and we are forced to figure out the Jared situation on our own, we have come to the conclusion that we will be selling/trading the piece towards an entirely new ring with a different vendor. As well as my 7 carat tennis bracelet and my 5 stone ring (the ring I purchased to wear everyday--because my e-ring kept breaking, which also was sized same day service for a 7-10.25-- which I should have never done) The only item I will keep is my wedding band--due to sentimental reasons. The I can put this entire Jared nightmare behind us.
I truly hope that when the times comes I will be able to come back and get advice on selling/trading these items and finally getting a ring - and other replacements that I can be proud of that doesn't have such bad memories attached.
I apologize again if I have offended anyone.
I would like everybody to know we COMPETELY appreciate your advice-- it is all cut and pasted into a personal document for reference
He just feels ( and I agree) that since this escalated so quickly with two different companies involved we don't want to add another thing to it. A mistake on our part and I deeply apologize if I have offended anyone. I own that. Everything that I have said has been true-- But I have let my frustrations get the best of me and it's unfair to take it our soley on JM- I AM upset and I DO feel we were blown off, but the blame is not all on them, This is equally JM, Jared and OUR fault. I take responsibility for some of the situation--we should have understood or policy better-- that's on us.
With both of us coming from families that are very big on jewelry, I have been asked several times in the past few weeks were is my ring is--not only setting off my frustrations but many bouts of tears and anxiety. We didn't want to explain what was going on to anyone in our lives-- Mainly for embarrassment purposes and frankly because they all would have been to nosy--without any consideration for our feelings and any helpful information- The support and advice on this board has been my saving grace because my real life support system (besides my fabulous husband) is slim to none. This may not be an "important" problem to the world but it is in OUR world.
This being said if JM at any point does step in and "help" or take over and we are forced to figure out the Jared situation on our own, we have come to the conclusion that we will be selling/trading the piece towards an entirely new ring with a different vendor. As well as my 7 carat tennis bracelet and my 5 stone ring (the ring I purchased to wear everyday--because my e-ring kept breaking, which also was sized same day service for a 7-10.25-- which I should have never done) The only item I will keep is my wedding band--due to sentimental reasons. The I can put this entire Jared nightmare behind us.
I truly hope that when the times comes I will be able to come back and get advice on selling/trading these items and finally getting a ring - and other replacements that I can be proud of that doesn't have such bad memories attached.
I apologize again if I have offended anyone.