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The stone looks like a 76% LG to me.
The stone looks like a 76% LG to me.
I don’t know what to tell you guys. I want to say stop worrying about it. But maybe you all need to stick with IF FL. I mean, if your GF believes her worth depends on that high of a clarity, then I guess you had better get what she wants.
My first engagement diamond was an eye clean I1.OMG. And yet, I am still married to him 23 years now and together for 30...
Thanks for correcting! So an HCA of 0.8 may not be perfect for a ring. But it doesn't exclude the diamond as being good for an engagement ring. Although I'm still not sure why a 0.8 is sub-optimal for a ring.
I guess the 1.0 HCA that I went with was the right choice after all.
I simply said buying Tiffany allows you to use their brand as the strength instead of trying to puff up an online vendor that the GF likely has never heard of. You tell me which is easier to accomplish; educating someone on an online brand or convincing the same person that Tiffany rings are sub-par to that online vendor? What am I missing here? Seems like common sense to me, but maybe not to you.
If the world blows dust onto your stone, you can wash it off. If you buy a stone with a white spec that is visible at tilt angles after washing, then you're the one who compromised. Fairly simple concept. The videos you see of diamonds online consistently show white specs on the table/crown of VS1 diamonds at tilt angles while VVS usually don't have the issue. I have a hard time believing that it's dust in the videos. In-person viewing of "dirty mall diamonds" and jeweler diamonds only reinforces the bias that some of the specks are indeed inclusions visible at tilt angles. Some women don't want an VS1. What am I missing here? Seems like common sense to me, the OP's GF literally told him a VVS or better was required because she doesn't want to deal with rationalizations or compromises.
If you mount a H stone next to F/G melee, some people can see the yellow of the H stone due to the contrast of the melee colors. What am I missing here? H is likely going to appear more yellow than an F; especially next to F/G melee or pave. Seems like common sense but I guess you can call it the dog piss effect to feel better about your opinion.
I think by now it's obvious the folks on PS strive for a super-ideal cut that is only marginally better than the regular ideal cut. Last I checked, an HCA score of 0.8 was better than compared to an HCA of 2.0? What am I missing here? You guys talk about HCA scores all the time, and 0.8 is really good? Right?
Do you need me to point out the little kinks in the tips of the hearts and slightly irregular heart shapes of the hearts in this image? That Whiteflash ACA doesn't have those irregularities on the scope. And the definition/color on the ASET is very good. Are you saying you can find a better ASET result than the Whiteflash 1.6?
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Don't let your pride get in the way of exploring options. You don't know what's going through the mind of someone else or their parents, and it's more "tacky" to assume you know what's best without asking.
Thanks for correcting! So an HCA of 0.8 may not be perfect for a ring. But it doesn't exclude the diamond as being good for an engagement ring. Although I'm still not sure why a 0.8 is sub-optimal for a ring.
I guess the 1.0 HCA that I went with was the right choice after all.
Are you just mis-interpreting my point on purpose? I'm so confused...
I said it would be hard for the OP to convince his GF about the virtues of an online-ordered super-ideal cut instead of Tiffany. There's benefit to avoid trying to modify perception instead of just going with it.
I personally don't have any issue with online vendors. I have on order a Black by Brian Gavin because I thought it was the best option available for all of my requirements. My point, which I hope you understand, is that I've had to spend effort trying to explain to my GF why some "guy named Brian" has better jewelry than what you can get with a Tiffany Soleste.
I don't like Tiffany & Co... Most Women like Tiffany & Co.
I'm not buying for myself... I'm buying for my future wife (I hope).
OP isn't buying the ring for himself... he's buying for his future wife (we hope).
Haven't bought anything yet, still comparing it to the 1.65 from JA, which looks very clean in pic & video, however, crown angle of 35.5 and depth of 62.5 is a tad outside of ideal ranges.
She should be fine with either, given they're about the same price, it's really is a toss up. I also remembered reading somewhere that the 35.5 crown works well with the 40.6 pavilion, is that correct? I'll wait to hear if other veterans have any comments on the depth, thanks yall!!
I think i also see a more pronounce hearts and arrows on the JA diamond, looks pretty lol
She should be fine with either, given they're about the same price, it's really is a toss up. I also remembered reading somewhere that the 35.5 crown works well with the 40.6 pavilion, is that correct? I'll wait to hear if other veterans have any comments on the depth, thanks yall!!
I think i also see a more pronounce hearts and arrows on the JA diamond, looks pretty lol
She should be fine with either, given they're about the same price, it's really is a toss up. I also remembered reading somewhere that the 35.5 crown works well with the 40.6 pavilion, is that correct? I'll wait to hear if other veterans have any comments on the depth, thanks yall!!
I think i also see a more pronounce hearts and arrows on the JA diamond, looks pretty lol
Hi @Audis410 ,
I see the JA diamond got sold so I guess congratulations are in order
Because your goal is now completed, I will allow myself to comment on the derailed discussion that's been going on here...
I felt really sad reading some messages in this threat. I like this forum for the contents but also for the friendliness, tolerance and respect that PS-ers show towards each other and the newcomers. I would hate to think that's only the case as long as we all share the same opinions. I thought it was a real shame how @holeydonut was addressed in some of the posts here. That, and I also believe it is always a missed opportunity not to hear out different views, especially from someone who comes in with a fresh perspective.
Personally, I found that perspective very interesting. Granted, only few on this forum would prefer Tiffany over a super ideal vendor. But the key words here are this forum. I think it is safe to assume that outside this community and the trade itself there's hardly anyone who has ever heard of e.g. Brian Gavin, but everybody knows Tiffany. Superideal diamonds are beyond awesome, but 'general public' doesn't know it. It's a niche product for a niche market. It takes time, knowledge and willingness to get educated to be able to appreciate a super ideal diamond more than one from Tiffany's. My guess is that creating demand and managing perception is one of the more challenging tasks that super ideal vendors face. I might be wrong, but I think that was the point @holeydonut was trying to make.
Have a wonderful day everyone.
Best,
Katya
If the world blows dust onto your stone, you can wash it off.
Coming late to this thread but as someone who obsessively cleans and then loupes their stone to make sure it's free of all smudges, lint, watermarks, etc, I can assure you that by the time you wash off that one speck of dust and put the ring back on your finger, the world will have blown two more specks of dust back on to your diamond.