Trudii
Rough_Rock
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- Sep 11, 2013
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I live in a state which appears to be an appraiser black hole on the list here. The closest is in two boarding states, but I have no reason to go to either location and it would be double digit hours round trip either direction. So is there a "next best option"?
What do I need appraised? Ugh. My mother's parents died when the children were young - my mom was 17, her brother 13. My mom held onto both parents wedding bands and her mom's ering (soldered to the band so really 1 ring). When my uncle got to be 18, she gave him the choice of their mom's ring or their dad's ring. He wanted his dad's. (There was a lot of anger toward their mom at the time, she passed by suicide.) 35+ years later, my uncle is convinced that his mother's ring was fantastic and my mom ripped him off. (There is really more underlying this, but right now all they are arguing about is the ring - I'm so glad I am an only child.) My mom gave me the ring when I turned 18. So now I'm in the middle of this nonsense.
I've found advertisements for the brand on eBay and found what is essentially the model. It is not fantastic or a huge diamond. Center stone is probably 1/4 carat (being generous), but the setting is in white gold and lots of cut work to make it look larger. http://www.ebay.com/itm/1954-AD-Keepsake-Diamond-Wedding-Engagement-Rings-Cute-50s-Bride-Gown-Veil-/360728477780?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&hash=item53fd17c054 (Option A in this ad)
Bottom line, I need to find a reputable jeweler who will give me an accurate, not overstated and not low-ball, estimate on this thing. I have no idea what my mom will do with the appraisal, she won't give him the ring because he sold their dad's years ago (which caused a fight), so I guess the plan is to write a check.
What do I need appraised? Ugh. My mother's parents died when the children were young - my mom was 17, her brother 13. My mom held onto both parents wedding bands and her mom's ering (soldered to the band so really 1 ring). When my uncle got to be 18, she gave him the choice of their mom's ring or their dad's ring. He wanted his dad's. (There was a lot of anger toward their mom at the time, she passed by suicide.) 35+ years later, my uncle is convinced that his mother's ring was fantastic and my mom ripped him off. (There is really more underlying this, but right now all they are arguing about is the ring - I'm so glad I am an only child.) My mom gave me the ring when I turned 18. So now I'm in the middle of this nonsense.
I've found advertisements for the brand on eBay and found what is essentially the model. It is not fantastic or a huge diamond. Center stone is probably 1/4 carat (being generous), but the setting is in white gold and lots of cut work to make it look larger. http://www.ebay.com/itm/1954-AD-Keepsake-Diamond-Wedding-Engagement-Rings-Cute-50s-Bride-Gown-Veil-/360728477780?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&hash=item53fd17c054 (Option A in this ad)
Bottom line, I need to find a reputable jeweler who will give me an accurate, not overstated and not low-ball, estimate on this thing. I have no idea what my mom will do with the appraisal, she won't give him the ring because he sold their dad's years ago (which caused a fight), so I guess the plan is to write a check.