claireabelle
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I will be 26 and he will be 28
Here''s to cradle-snatching!Date: 6/22/2008 5:47:40 AM
Author: gwendolyn
J and I are almost engaged now (he''s ready to get married now, I just want to make sure living together goes well first, and we''re moving in together in a couple of months). I''m 30 now, and I''m thinking I''ll either be 30 or 31 when we get married, which would mean he''d be 27, maybe 28 (another cradle-robber here!).
Sad to say it''s true that marrying an older man is higher risk of being a young widow. My dad was 13 yrs older and left my mom a 58 yr old widow recentlyDate: 6/22/2008 8:39:41 AM
Author: Pandora II
Here''s to cradle-snatching!Date: 6/22/2008 5:47:40 AM
Author: gwendolyn
J and I are almost engaged now (he''s ready to get married now, I just want to make sure living together goes well first, and we''re moving in together in a couple of months). I''m 30 now, and I''m thinking I''ll either be 30 or 31 when we get married, which would mean he''d be 27, maybe 28 (another cradle-robber here!).
FI will be 33!
My mother was very pleased I''m marrying a younger man. My father is 11 years older than her and she feels that she has hit things like retirement 10 years too early.
Also with women living longer than men on average it''s a nice idea that if nothing terrible happens en-route, you might end up spending less of your old-age alone. My grandmother''s have been widowed 15 years and 36 years respectively and they both had much older husbands.