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I disagree wholeheartedly.
PS is a microcosm. It’s a microcosm of blind chart- and tool-happy fanaticism.
Doesn't score <2 on HCA? Garbage.
Doesn't fit EX/0 GIA and AGS proportions charts? Garbage.
Doesn't meet those wretched "cheat sheet" specs? Garbage.
Doesn't have big chunky symmetric facets? Garbage.
In reality, of course, much of this "garbage" is perfectly lovely. There is nothing above the proportions on this stone that should serve as a warning sign to anyone but followers of blind chart- and tool-happy fanaticism - by the numbers this could be a perfectly beautiful stone, and the inclusions could well have been nothing to write home about.
Diamonds are visual spectacles. They need to be bought using the eyes... and the eyes need to be trained a little to identify what they do and do not like. The report was never intended to be the primary medium of purchase - it was meant to supplement an in-person viewing. PS "blindness" is inevitable and understandable, as of course we don't have anything but photos and numbers to work with, but to suggest that our tools and charts and graphs and plots should take precedence over what the eyes appreciate is misleading at best, counterproductive at worst.
OP's FI failed to do his due diligence in this in-person viewing; I cannot find sympathy for anyone but OP in this situation. Hopefully her vendor will understand that what she is looking for is not what her FI was satisfied with originally.
I was sick at the time you wrote this and never felt like responding back. I'm better now but see the OP updated the thread to which you have responded and you didn't understand the dealer bringing in the stone didn't have a return policy.
I hope you can see why I was critical of the dealer. In the OP's initial thread I had caught that fact, and was disappointed the jeweler wouldn't advise the OP's fiancee of potential issues on a non-returnable stone. Even if you ignore the cut quality because frankly the buyer probably couldn't discern a difference, the clarity plots and notes tells a responsible jeweler there is likely clarity issues going on that an inexperienced buyer could see -- as confirmed by the OP.
Conveniently the other diamond got sold. And apparently there was only two diamonds in the world that met all criteria , so the jeweler proceeds to order the one that arrived and says there is no return policy.
All shady practices in my opinion. I wasn't there and don't know if any of this was done deceitfully or not but I do know if I owned & operated a diamond shop I would have advised my clients of the potential issues so there would be no misunderstandings or hard feelings like what has occurred. I'd like to think all jewelers would treat their customers in a similar fashion, but it's apparent that isn't the case.