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kenny|1295128205|2823729 said:
Even then.
I don't think being a racist is good but I'll still treat the person with the same respect here as I treat everyone else.
If he breaks a PS rule I'll report it.

I don't like this, "You are not how I think you should be so I'm going to stick it to you every chance I get".That behavior very prevalent here on PS.

C'mon Kenny, seriously.

I think the problem is we collectively don't always treat people with the "same respect", either perceived or intended. As I said, I take things on a thread by thread basis. There are some threads where I stay the hell away from you because you treat one vendor with such malevolence, it makes me want to buy from him. You DO stick it to him every chance you get. Is he worse then, than a racist?

Other threads, I like your posts just fine, and find them interesting or food for thought.

No one is "on" all the time.
 
kenny|1295128205|2823729 said:
TravelingGal|1295127587|2823718 said:
iLander|1295125179|2823675 said:
kenny|1295124670|2823668 said:
Cuso's behavior didn't get under my skin one bit.
He was young; he'll grow up.

I was civil, even polite to him particularly because the pious be-nice-like-me mob was following him around with their chisels and hammers.
I think I even posted that people should stop being so mean to him, or something - which of course turns the mob of Legislated Niceness in my direction.
A brave few posted their agreement with me that he was treated badly and unfairly.

Cuso was a great example of this community's intolerance.
It's ironic . . . be nice or get clubbed over the head by us nice people.

BEHAVE LIKE ME, OR ELSE!!!!!!!

Whatever. :roll:

I respectfully disagree; I felt Cuso was a thinly veiled racist (you have to read his earliest threads), and that offended me.

I apologize to you, and everyone else on this board, if my contempt for Cuso diminished your enjoyment of PS.
:halo:

It will not happen again. I will take the advice of many wise posters to this thread and ignore people who offend me.

I think calling people RACIST doesn't contribute to the positive spirit of Pricescope.

But nice of you to apologize.

Even then.
I don't think being a racist is good but I'll still treat the person with the same respect here as I treat everyone else.
If he breaks a PS rule I'll report it.

I don't like this, "You are not how I think you should be so I'm going to stick it to you every chance I get".
That nasty behavior very prevalent here on PS and people not only think there's nothing wrong with it, they egg each other on.

Ugly mob mentality.
Be like us, or else.


I know I shall regret posting later, but one could say that you are intolerant of people who stand up for their principles!*

*For example, those that stand up against racism wherever they see it, even on Pricescope.


Deb
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Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend
 
iLander|1295127857|2823722 said:
Haven|1295127307|2823713 said:
AutumnNovember--I didn't realize you posted that in the CUSO thread when I wrote my first response; I definitely wasn't thinking about you when I wrote my first post, I was thinking of another poster.
ANYWAY, I'll take an EFFEN Black with Sprite, please. And a scoop of vanilla ice cream on the side. Thankyouverymuch.
I believe you were directing it at me, Haven, please see my apology on the bottom of page 2. I would like to direct it (the apology) to you too.
What is EFFEN? Is that like a scotch or something?
I saw your apology and I thank you for it. Although--I don't even believe you have to or should feel obligated to apologize. As I said, I was just sharing my own perception, and didn't even want to call anyone out in particular in the first place because it was just one example of many.
I like reading your posts and I think your threads contribute a lot to the PS community.
 
iLander, not a wine cooler, but you might like Mikes Lemonade?? Or order a wine spritzer?? Don't see Karl here, but need to have Pepsi on hand for him..
 
Haven---I don't think I could ever not have respect for your thoughts and opinions!! I value everything you say...regardless if it coincides with my own thoughts. Plus, I will forever love you for editing my personal statement and supporting/encouraging me!
 
And we need to offer something to our wonderful Moderator's!!! Andrey and Ella, I am sure we have driven them to drink a few times... :wavey:
 
Kaleigh|1295129025|2823743 said:
And we need to offer something to our wonderful Moderator's!!! Andrey and Ella, I am sure we have driven them to drink a few times... :wavey:

Who are you kidding Kaleigh? We've probably driven them to start taking things intravenously. :rodent:
 
Haven|1295128623|2823737 said:
iLander|1295127857|2823722 said:
Haven|1295127307|2823713 said:
AutumnNovember--I didn't realize you posted that in the CUSO thread when I wrote my first response; I definitely wasn't thinking about you when I wrote my first post, I was thinking of another poster.
ANYWAY, I'll take an EFFEN Black with Sprite, please. And a scoop of vanilla ice cream on the side. Thankyouverymuch.
I believe you were directing it at me, Haven, please see my apology on the bottom of page 2. I would like to direct it (the apology) to you too.
What is EFFEN? Is that like a scotch or something?
I saw your apology and I thank you for it. Although--I don't even believe you have to or should feel obligated to apologize. As I said, I was just sharing my own perception, and didn't even want to call anyone out in particular in the first place because it was just one example of many.
I like reading your posts and I think your threads contribute a lot to the PS community.

Thank you, Haven. I feel that you are one of the most fair and level-headed people on PS, and I appreciate that.

I didn't apologize because I felt obligated to others. I felt obligated to my own sense of self, and others were right to point out my hypocrisy.
 
Kaleigh|1295128859|2823740 said:
iLander, not a wine cooler, but you might like Mikes Lemonade?? Or order a wine spritzer?? Don't see Karl here, but need to have Pepsi on hand for him..

Okay, spritzer sounds good, is that like a wine cooler? Does it come in a red or white? What's the spritz?
 
HollyS|1295128403|2823732 said:
Matata:

For one of your recent posts - elsewhere on PS - you are my idol. :love:

I think you, Karen, and I could have a very good time - with or without the margaritas. But I'm thinking with would be the most fun. :bigsmile:

Yeah, after this thread, mellowed-out and tipsy is sounding good. I can only read the endless litany, so many times before I need a drink. :rolleyes:

Folks, for those of you who don't know - when Holly and I begin to agree enough to go get sloshed together, things have gotten very weird indeed. We've begun punching through into an alternate universe. Either that or we're just too damn old to fight anymore.

...hmmm....I think I'll stick with "weird" for now. The other is too yuck to contemplate. ;))
 
ksinger|1295129678|2823756 said:
Yeah, after this thread, mellowed-out and tipsy is sounding good. I can only read the endless litany, so many times before I need a drink. :rolleyes:

Folks, for those of you who don't know - when Holly and I begin to agree enough to go get sloshed together, things have gotten very weird indeed. We've begun punching through into an alternate universe. Either that or we're just too damn old to fight anymore.

Oh, fellow traveler, don't get too possessive with Holly. I claimed her as my right wing companion shortly after the Presidential elections and she and I have been pals ever since.

Deb
:read:

Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend
 
TravelingGal|1295128506|2823734 said:
kenny|1295128205|2823729 said:
Even then.
I don't think being a racist is good but I'll still treat the person with the same respect here as I treat everyone else.
If he breaks a PS rule I'll report it.

I don't like this, "You are not how I think you should be so I'm going to stick it to you every chance I get".That behavior very prevalent here on PS.

C'mon Kenny, seriously.

I think the problem is we collectively don't always treat people with the "same respect", either perceived or intended. As I said, I take things on a thread by thread basis. There are some threads where I stay the hell away from you because you treat one vendor with such malevolence, it makes me want to buy from him. You DO stick it to him every chance you get. Is he worse then, than a racist?

Other threads, I like your posts just fine, and find them interesting or food for thought.

No one is "on" all the time.

This is a diamond forum and it is my opinion that some things a certain vendor does is not ethical to diamond shoppers.

I strive to respect diversity and take it much much further than most.
All of us won't tolerate intolerance based on race, gender, orientation AND I strive to extend the respect thing way beyond what is genetic.
I strive to respect people's right to believe ANYTHING and behave in ANY way as long as it's legal and I perceive it does not harm others.

I know a lot about photography (sorry all you folks who are offended by my ego, I can hear you bristling at such a statement.)
If I perceive an allegation of a vendor photocopying out inclusions, or who photographs diamonds in a way that conceals undesirable qualities of diamonds I will speak up.
I will use my knowledge of photography.
I will present arguments in the most clear understandable way I can.
I think that is a good and helpful service I can offer to repay PS for all the beauty it has brought into my life.

Photography can lie.
This is a diamond forum, and my knowledge of photography is a legit forensic skill here.
I'll also call the cops if I witness a murder - I do not consider that intolerance of diversity either.
Respecting diversity doesn't mean respecting a person's right to harm others.
 
kenny|1295130127|2823763 said:
Respecting diversity doesn't mean respecting the right to harm others.

I think racism harms others . . . I lost my cool.
 
iLander|1295130319|2823766 said:
kenny|1295130127|2823763 said:
Respecting diversity doesn't mean respecting the right to harm others.

I think racism harms others . . . I lost my cool.

Yeah but that topic is not permitted here.

Treating a suspected racist badly on a board where the elephant in the room cannot be discussed helps nothing and just makes you (not you personally iLander - a generic you) look like a butthead IMHO.
 
ksinger|1295129678|2823756 said:
HollyS|1295128403|2823732 said:
Matata:

For one of your recent posts - elsewhere on PS - you are my idol. :love:

I think you, Karen, and I could have a very good time - with or without the margaritas. But I'm thinking with would be the most fun. :bigsmile:

Yeah, after this thread, mellowed-out and tipsy is sounding good. I can only read the endless litany, so many times before I need a drink. :rolleyes:

Folks, for those of you who don't know - when Holly and I begin to agree enough to go get sloshed together, things have gotten very weird indeed. We've begun punching through into an alternate universe. Either that or we're just too damn old to fight anymore.

...hmmm....I think I'll stick with "weird" for now. The other is too yuck to contemplate. ;))


:bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

I've always respected you, even when I haven't agreed with you. And, don't we really only disagree about politics? I find you refreshingly b***sh** free. :wink2:

But, I'm afraid, my wary-of-me friend, you are, in fact, mellowing with age. And I've grown on you. :naughty:

One of these days, I'll be able to do my best Sally Field impression in response to you: "You Like Me!! You REALLY Like Me!!!" :lol:
 
AGBF|1295128600|2823736 said:
kenny|1295128205|2823729 said:
TravelingGal|1295127587|2823718 said:
iLander|1295125179|2823675 said:
kenny|1295124670|2823668 said:
Cuso's behavior didn't get under my skin one bit.
He was young; he'll grow up.

I was civil, even polite to him particularly because the pious be-nice-like-me mob was following him around with their chisels and hammers.
I think I even posted that people should stop being so mean to him, or something - which of course turns the mob of Legislated Niceness in my direction.
A brave few posted their agreement with me that he was treated badly and unfairly.

Cuso was a great example of this community's intolerance.
It's ironic . . . be nice or get clubbed over the head by us nice people.

BEHAVE LIKE ME, OR ELSE!!!!!!!

Whatever. :roll:

I respectfully disagree; I felt Cuso was a thinly veiled racist (you have to read his earliest threads), and that offended me.

I apologize to you, and everyone else on this board, if my contempt for Cuso diminished your enjoyment of PS.
:halo:

It will not happen again. I will take the advice of many wise posters to this thread and ignore people who offend me.

I think calling people RACIST doesn't contribute to the positive spirit of Pricescope.

But nice of you to apologize.

Even then.
I don't think being a racist is good but I'll still treat the person with the same respect here as I treat everyone else.
If he breaks a PS rule I'll report it.

I don't like this, "You are not how I think you should be so I'm going to stick it to you every chance I get".
That nasty behavior very prevalent here on PS and people not only think there's nothing wrong with it, they egg each other on.

Ugly mob mentality.
Be like us, or else.


I know I shall regret posting later, but one could say that you are intolerant of people who stand up for their principles!*

*For example, those that stand up against racism wherever they see it, even on Pricescope.


Deb
:read:

Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend

So being nasty to a person stands up for principles?
How bout being a shining light of tolerance and love blah blah blah.
You get more bees with honey than with vinegar . . . blah blah blah
WWJD . . . blah blah blah

This board is just NOT optimized for curing racism.
 
AGBF|1295130098|2823762 said:
ksinger|1295129678|2823756 said:
Yeah, after this thread, mellowed-out and tipsy is sounding good. I can only read the endless litany, so many times before I need a drink. :rolleyes:

Folks, for those of you who don't know - when Holly and I begin to agree enough to go get sloshed together, things have gotten very weird indeed. We've begun punching through into an alternate universe. Either that or we're just too damn old to fight anymore.

Oh, fellow traveler, don't get too possessive with Holly. I claimed her as my right wing companion shortly after the Presidential elections and she and I have been pals ever since.

Deb
:read:

Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend



Wanna come drinking with us? You, Miss Virgin Daiquiris, can be the designated driver. :bigsmile:
 
Kenny, at the risk of beating a dead horse, I don't know what you're talking about at all when it comes to photography and that vendor...meaning I never saw threads like that. The ones I saw were of you berating the vendor...ceaselessly. Meaning, poke poke poke poke poke.

Don't get me wrong...I don't think said vendor is innocent either of the same thing. Coming to a thread, sending an insult and then pulling back and going, "WHO, MOI?" is lame too. But you both are guilty of just going on and on and on.

And yes, you are a good photographer. I love your pics. Your paintings too.
 
kenny|1295130418|2823767 said:
iLander|1295130319|2823766 said:
kenny|1295130127|2823763 said:
Respecting diversity doesn't mean respecting the right to harm others.

I think racism harms others . . . I lost my cool.

Yeah but that topic is not permitted here.

Treating a suspected racist badly on a board where the elephant in the room cannot be discussed helps nothing and just makes you (not you personally iLander - a generic you) look like a butthead IMHO.

Yeah, I can look like a butthead if necessary. Small price to pay. Saying this with a smile, not offended in any way.
 
HollyS|1295130558|2823770 said:
ksinger|1295129678|2823756 said:
HollyS|1295128403|2823732 said:
Matata:

For one of your recent posts - elsewhere on PS - you are my idol. :love:

I think you, Karen, and I could have a very good time - with or without the margaritas. But I'm thinking with would be the most fun. :bigsmile:

Yeah, after this thread, mellowed-out and tipsy is sounding good. I can only read the endless litany, so many times before I need a drink. :rolleyes:

Folks, for those of you who don't know - when Holly and I begin to agree enough to go get sloshed together, things have gotten very weird indeed. We've begun punching through into an alternate universe. Either that or we're just too damn old to fight anymore.

...hmmm....I think I'll stick with "weird" for now. The other is too yuck to contemplate. ;))


:bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

I've always respected you, even when I haven't agreed with you. And, don't we really only disagree about politics? I find you refreshingly b***sh** free. :wink2:

But, I'm afraid, my wary-of-me friend, you are, in fact, mellowing with age. And I've grown on you. :naughty:

One of these days, I'll be able to do my best Sally Field impression in response to you: "You Like Me!! You REALLY Like Me!!!" :lol:

Let em allow politics again on ATW. Let's see how much we've all REALLY mellowed. :devil:

How do we petition Andrey and Ella to get it going before the next presidential campaign? :bigsmile:
 
TGal:

Just because I feel a certain unnamed president is a putz, and Karen felt that a certain unnamed president was a putz . . . that doesn't mean we cannot agree that the aforementioned putzes cancel each other out! Clean slate! :bigsmile:

I'm too tired to fight about politics. Maybe in a year . . . :naughty:
 
If everyone fully understood the technical side of macro gem photography let me just say things would be a lot different around here.

Photography has the power to move our hearts and manipulate us into parting with our money - AND SMART VENDORS KNOW IT.

In the hands of the unethical, a camera it is a weapon.
 
Matata|1295126723|2823704 said:
So how do we cope? The only way I found effective for me
is to stay true to my own philosophy, engage in as reasonable
a discourse as an opposing party is willing to -- express my opinion
in a respectful manner and move on.

It's not easy to change someone's mind and I'm not sure we should try.
Present an opposing opinion, listen to the other side, try to find common
ground upon which to establish a relationship and if you can't move on.

truly wise.

i tend to stay out of the "controversial posts" or simply post my opinion & move on. but here, as in my real life, i'm not drawn to drama or conflict.

i do think that as alluded to several times in this thread conflicts on this board arise b/c of the sheer # of personality types that reside here, that we all enter these threads with our own unique experiences & history, sometimes people aren't great at getting their tone across through their writing, and sometimes a lack of empathy & lack of a desire for understanding. sometimes what's needed as a deep breath & a fresh read :D (or the ignore button ;) )
 
May I remind us all of the Unicorn Code
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oh & if we're drinking, i want in.

i'll just take a good ol' ice cold beer. sierra nevada, please?
 
I'd rather be reminded of TGal"s offering of the Flame Warior Roster at http://redwing.hutman.net/~mreed/warriorshtm/artfuldodger.htm


It's certainly just as apropo for this thread. :bigsmile:



(I'm not implying that anyone here is an Artful Dodger. That is just where the roster stopped when I saved it for further perusal.)
 
I really love that Flame Warrior link.

You know how people upgrade the How Are You Feeling Chart with various characteristics and then tag people they know on FB as each characteristic? I really wish we could do the same with the Flame Warriors and our fellow PSers. All in good fun, of course. I feel like I could (unfortunately) fit into so many of those unfortunate warrior profiles!

howareyou_grey.gif
 
kenny|1295130657|2823773 said:
So being nasty to a person stands up for principles?
How bout being a shining light of tolerance and love blah blah blah.
You get more bees with honey than with vinegar . . . blah blah blah
WWJD . . . blah blah blah

This board is just NOT optimized for curing racism.

Whatever you want, Kenny.

Deb
:read:

Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend
 
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