TravelingGal
Super_Ideal_Rock
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MC|1295113111|2823516 said:Circe|1295054991|2823162 said:Fewer people = more tension, I think. Hopefully, we'll stick new members to replace the ones that were lost in the switchover to 2.0.
Otherwise, I guess we can all get real used to the "Ignore" button ....
Yeah, less people is part of it. I get the general feeling that everyone would like to blame other members for the current atmosphere of PS, but I for one, will admit, I've lost patience with some posters who play the same games over and over so I know I've contributed to some tension.
I think everyone needs to take stock in what they've said and consider how things come across and a) maybe reevaluate what/how they say things, and b) do the same when reading what others say. Some people sound really smug to me and I have NO idea if they are or if their writing style just portrays that. What I can say it it's taking greater effort for me to keep my mouth shut.
I've been here like EIGHT years and have seen fights happening throughout these years. It's not like BOOM, we've all blown up a gentle countryside and turned it into a mine field. There have been numerous bickering fights, etc., as the years have progressed but some of the people who were involved have either moved on OR have changed their approach over time so the newer ones may have created the impression that PS has suddenly turned evil.
Good post MC.
Since iLander asked for suggestions, here's mine.
If something irritates you, hate the POST, not the poster.
Stop being the victim. The world of PS is not out to get you. If someone, especially a nice poster who never gets into the scuffle, makes a good point, don't call it bait. No one is baiting you. No enemies are out to get you.
Reflect. Everyone can put their words in a better way.
No one is perfect. No one. So learn how to apologize and listen to what others have to say.