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And as for the color, I would highly recommend against going with a J-color sight unseen. If you don't know your girlfriend's color sensitivity, there's a very high chance she's going to be able to see some color in a J. H seems to be the limit where most on here would agree it looks "white." At I and beyond is where discrepancies in color sensitivity start to arise. Many say that I still looks white. A few say that J looks white. But you really won't know how your girlfriend will react to color unless you've taken her to a jewelry store and looked at the various colors together. That's why most on here recommend that, if your purchasing the ring as a surprise (meaning without input from the other person), then H is a safe upper limit in color.
If you were thinking about setting the diamond in a halo or bezel where the side view would be obstructed, then a J might be OK. But in a prong setting she will be able to see the side profile of the diamond quite frequently. Remember, women don't always have their hand cocked at a 45 degree angle to see the diamond face-up at all times. So the side-color is also important.
And a final thing to keep in mind is the Pave color. Most of the non-custom rings come with F-G pave diamonds. So a J color would likely look "off" next to the F-G pave. It's typically safe to be within +/- one color grade of the pave, so for F-G pave, center stones in the E-H range would "match" the best.
If you were thinking about setting the diamond in a halo or bezel where the side view would be obstructed, then a J might be OK. But in a prong setting she will be able to see the side profile of the diamond quite frequently. Remember, women don't always have their hand cocked at a 45 degree angle to see the diamond face-up at all times. So the side-color is also important.
And a final thing to keep in mind is the Pave color. Most of the non-custom rings come with F-G pave diamonds. So a J color would likely look "off" next to the F-G pave. It's typically safe to be within +/- one color grade of the pave, so for F-G pave, center stones in the E-H range would "match" the best.