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Ideal_Rock
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I read this old thread while browsing Hangout that concluded that most people would like to receive cash as a gift, generally. However a lot of wedding guides state that in some parts of the world at least, giving cash is tacky, and one should basically buy an item off a registry for the couple.
Personally I would want to both give and receive cash for its max practical use. I am not married yet but I don’t think I would do a physical gift registry whenever I do get married - I don’t need more “stuff” and I also prefer to have options of what “stuff” to buy from different stores etc. I might do an “experience” based registry (like a honeymoon registry) and/or a charitable donation registry, but I know some people will still give me physical gifts I won’t ask for (hopefully usable ones!)
So my questions to facilitate a fun discussion here:
- does your choice change depending on if you’re the giver or recipient?
- is there any one gifting option you really dislike? Why?
- if there’s no registry at all, would you prefer doing cash, gift cards or a physical gift you pick out yourself?
- do you form an opinion of a couple based on their choices of registry etc (whether to have one, what type of one) or are you indifferent?
- if you’re married, how did you handle this and do you wish you’d done this differently?
- do you think a couple should make their policy on gifting clear or rely on word of mouth? And how would you suggest others t go about it / how did you go about it?
Personally I would want to both give and receive cash for its max practical use. I am not married yet but I don’t think I would do a physical gift registry whenever I do get married - I don’t need more “stuff” and I also prefer to have options of what “stuff” to buy from different stores etc. I might do an “experience” based registry (like a honeymoon registry) and/or a charitable donation registry, but I know some people will still give me physical gifts I won’t ask for (hopefully usable ones!)
So my questions to facilitate a fun discussion here:
- does your choice change depending on if you’re the giver or recipient?
- is there any one gifting option you really dislike? Why?
- if there’s no registry at all, would you prefer doing cash, gift cards or a physical gift you pick out yourself?
- do you form an opinion of a couple based on their choices of registry etc (whether to have one, what type of one) or are you indifferent?
- if you’re married, how did you handle this and do you wish you’d done this differently?
- do you think a couple should make their policy on gifting clear or rely on word of mouth? And how would you suggest others t go about it / how did you go about it?