I really like this one specifically. Something about the split at the top part. I mean, am I being picky about the dents and folds?
Yes. You are being too picky. A lot of new shoes/clothing are distressed to give it a worn look. Also, you are the only person that is going to pick up your boots and stare at the imperfections. Most people would not give your boots more than a quick glance. If you love the style and price, just keep it!
You can try to put it on a shoe form (or wad some clothes up over cardboard or whatever) and then put a hairdryer on it on hot to see if you can get it formed nicely. You may need to get the leather wet first and then oil it after, but I'd try it without wetting it before using more extreme methods.
Here's a link but you can google for many more: https://bootmoodfoot.com/get-creases-out-of-leather-shoes/
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The nice thing about leather as opposed to other shoe materials is that you CAN work it a bit after you get the item. My husband is shocked every time I buy a thousand dollar pair of heels and immediately put the toebox-stretchers and crank them until the leather looks almost like it will give way, but I love both pointed-toe shoes AND comfort, lol.
Love your new boots! I'm glad you decided to keep them. Enjoy them!