My apartment building has hardwood floors in all the units, and the neighbor above me wears her heels and walks around incessantly all through the day and sounds like she's dragging around heavy pieces of furniture all day long. She continues to clomp around in her heels until 11pm, midnight, even 1 am some days, and talks extremely loudly. In the mornings, she wakes up and stomps around at 6 am right above my bed, every day - Saturday and Sunday mornings included. All of this is really starting to take a toll on me - dealing with the constant clomping around in heels all day, not being able to sleep at night, being woken up with a start every day that I'm not already up - I'm constantly tired/stressed/angry and at my wit's end. All I ask is that she not walk around in heels all the time, and just be a little mindful during the times of day that other people might be sleeping - before 7:30-8 am (especially on weekends), and past 10-11 pm.
I finally said something to the landlord after months and months of trying to live with it, and when it gets especially bad I bang on the ceiling/wall. This morning I was startled awake as she screamed at someone on the phone at 6:30 am, and then proceeded to stomp around - I lost it and banged on the wall really hard. Turns out, she called the landlord, upset that I banged on the wall when all she did was 'walk to the bathroom.' Well, right, that is all she did. Except there's a difference between walking normally and stomping (I can also hear when she walks normally and that's obviously not an issue or something I would complain about). My landlord, she and I are scheduled to talk face to face tomorrow, and I just don't want this to turn into a situation where she becomes louder out of spite or something. I also don't want to stress about this anymore, and really need to be able to sleep and function normally. Help??
I finally said something to the landlord after months and months of trying to live with it, and when it gets especially bad I bang on the ceiling/wall. This morning I was startled awake as she screamed at someone on the phone at 6:30 am, and then proceeded to stomp around - I lost it and banged on the wall really hard. Turns out, she called the landlord, upset that I banged on the wall when all she did was 'walk to the bathroom.' Well, right, that is all she did. Except there's a difference between walking normally and stomping (I can also hear when she walks normally and that's obviously not an issue or something I would complain about). My landlord, she and I are scheduled to talk face to face tomorrow, and I just don't want this to turn into a situation where she becomes louder out of spite or something. I also don't want to stress about this anymore, and really need to be able to sleep and function normally. Help??