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It sounds like your husband is fine with it so the real question is would you be fine with it? It sounds like maybe you wouldn't be - that it's more important to you that you spend the holidays with your husband than it is to him. If that's the case, you should consider staying home because of how you feel, not how your hubby feels. And I totally get that. I'd feel the same guilt in your position probably.