Bliss
Ideal_Rock
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Would you lend a friend money? A good friend of mine asked for $500, not a huge deal. My family told me to think of it as a donation, since the friendship would be strained if I ever expected her to pay it back. She has a good job but said that she overspent and was too embarrassed to ask her family. She acted pretty desperate (have no idea why) so I caved and sent it to her with the agreement that she'd pay it back in a few weeks.
Since then, she has called to say she's visiting her LDR boyfriend...treating him to rock concerts & etc. LOL. I can't help thinking, "Wow, I'm essentially paying for her boyfriend now?"
Should I say anything or let it go? It's been about four months. My own fault for lending it in the first place. I don't really need it, but of course $500 is still significant enough to be mildly irritated.
Would you bring it up?