EHR2009
Brilliant_Rock
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Hi Everyone, I visited a jeweler today to talk about possibly filing down my eternity band (which I decided against), and while he was very nice and informative, he went on and on about how terrible platinum is (most of my rings are platinum, FYI).
He said that it is so soft that it is not meant to be worn everyday. I know that it has a soft surface, but I thought that it is more durable than gold? I asked him why he thinks people buy it, and he said basically just for the status of having platinum. He said that he always tries to talk young people out of buying it, because it won''t last over the years.
I was aware that the surface is soft, but isn''t the benefit of platinum that it can be polished back into place since the mental just gets displaced?
He also said that if platinum is next to gold, that the gold will eat away at the platinum. I thought it was the other way around???
Anyway, I just wanted to post about this because I have always thought that platinum was just a superior metal (obviously, which is why I chose it for my rings), especially since it is more expensive that gold, and this is what my previous jewelers have told me? This jeweler seemed to STRONGLY dissuade the use of platinum for wedding sets, and I thought some of the experts could way in on the pros and cons? This jeweler has been in the business for over 40 years, and does work with platinum, so I didn''t simply shrug off his comments as someone who just did not know what he was talking about. Now I am worried about my wedding set holding up over the years
Sorry for the EXTREMELY long post, but any expert opinions would be greatly appreciated.
He said that it is so soft that it is not meant to be worn everyday. I know that it has a soft surface, but I thought that it is more durable than gold? I asked him why he thinks people buy it, and he said basically just for the status of having platinum. He said that he always tries to talk young people out of buying it, because it won''t last over the years.
I was aware that the surface is soft, but isn''t the benefit of platinum that it can be polished back into place since the mental just gets displaced?
He also said that if platinum is next to gold, that the gold will eat away at the platinum. I thought it was the other way around???
Anyway, I just wanted to post about this because I have always thought that platinum was just a superior metal (obviously, which is why I chose it for my rings), especially since it is more expensive that gold, and this is what my previous jewelers have told me? This jeweler seemed to STRONGLY dissuade the use of platinum for wedding sets, and I thought some of the experts could way in on the pros and cons? This jeweler has been in the business for over 40 years, and does work with platinum, so I didn''t simply shrug off his comments as someone who just did not know what he was talking about. Now I am worried about my wedding set holding up over the years

Sorry for the EXTREMELY long post, but any expert opinions would be greatly appreciated.