Which necklace?

[ean]

Looking for an everyday timeless necklace that I can potentially layer with a dbty style necklace. I saw these two and thought they were so pretty! However, I am worried that they might be too “trendy” and might not age well. My everyday jewelry consists of a 1ct 5 station dbty bracelet, my radiant double halo e ring and half eternity wedding ring, and a tiffany victoria style marquise diamond stud earrings. I’d say I like more dainty jewelry than statement pieces as I am on the smaller side. Any other suggestions welcome as well.


The butterfly necklace is 6.5mm w and .17ctw
The flower necklace is 9.5 mm and .32ctw

The heart necklace is 6.5mm and .20ctw

 

[dk168]

Both are lovely, however, if I had to choose one, I would opt for the flower myself.

DK

 

[Kaycee2018]

I think the butterfly is a bit more timeless vs. the flower. Have you considered a diamond circle necklace? I think that’s a super timeless option. There is very dainty one available on LT and Whiteflash has a more substantial one. I think most jewelers offer them.

Diamond necklace | Loupe Troop

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'Circle Of Life' Diamond Pendant | 702

Circle Of Life Diamond Pendant. Celebrate the enduring cycle of life with this sparkling diamond pendant. | 702

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[ean]

And here is a heart one I just saw. 6.5mm .20ct

 

[ean]

Both are lovely, however, if I had to choose one, I would opt for the flower myself.

DK

Thank you! The flower is also almost half the price of the butterfly, so hmmmmmmmmm....

 

[dk168]

May I change my vote please, now that you have added a heart to the mix?

Done, changed to the heart.

DK

 

[Kaycee2018]

Changing my vote to heart too!

 

[Cina_s]

I agree. both are lovely. I'd do the flower myself too- as it seems to be a tad more versatile then the butterfly.

 

[Cina_s]

I agree. both are lovely. I'd do the flower myself too- as it seems to be a tad more versatile then the butterfly.

OOO I Agree as well.. LOL HEART!!!!!! Even more versatile When I replied - i got distracted by a phone call.. didnt know you had a heart choice!

Lol

 

[ean]

OOO I Agree as well.. LOL HEART!!!!!! Even more versatile When I replied - i got distracted by a phone call.. didnt know you had a heart choice!

Lol

Thank you! I just added it recently. I didn’t even notice it until the jeweler sent me a picture. Never really thought I’d like heart shaped jewelry, but I am somehow drawn to this one!

 

[tyty333]

I know this is nit-picky but I dont like how the round circles that connect the chain face on the butterfly. They are not noticeable
on the flower or heart. I would probably go with the flower or heart but I would really want something that was more generic
(more timeless) like a round brilliant in a halo.

 

[ean]

I know this is nit-picky but I dont like how the round circles that connect the chain face on the butterfly. They are not noticeable
on the flower or heart. I would probably go with the flower or heart but I would really want something that was more generic
(more timeless) like a round brilliant in a halo.

Didn’t realize that until you pointed it out, now I can’t unsee it. And yes, round brilliant in halos never go out of style!

 

[Big Fat Facets]

of the 3 options and without seeing it on you. i prefer the butterfly or heart over the flower. favoring the the heart slightly more. have you taken account to facial shape when selecting a pendant??? do you have a favorite??

 

[seaurchin]

I like the flower the best because it seems to me less common than butterflies or hearts. However, more importantly, I think you should definitely get whichever one YOU like best. Then show pics, of course!

 

[ean]

of the 3 options and without seeing it on you. i prefer the butterfly or heart over the flower. favoring the the heart slightly more. have you taken account to facial shape when selecting a pendant??? do you have a favorite??

Never thought about considering face shape. That’s smart!!I have an oval face. Honestly, I am really torn about all 3. Cost wise, the butterfly is the most expensive, almost twice the price of the flower and the heart. I am also thinking about which one would go well/wouldn’t clash with tiffany victoria style earrings.

 

[Big Fat Facets]

hhmmm, are you able to actually try them on take an image and then compare to see which one looks best on you??

 

[ean]

hhmmm, are you able to actually try them on take an image and then compare to see which one looks best on you??

Unfortunately, no. These aren’t from a local jeweler. It’s kind of deceiving too because they look so big in pictures but they’re all very dainty.

 

[Big Fat Facets]

hmmm, can you get the jeweler to get a lady to put each on and send you a picture?? the picture containing the expanse of the shoulder and well as the neck up to the jawline would probably be totally helpful.

 

[Mosie1207]

I really like the butterfly. Do like hearts though- I have a Tiffany metro heart that I almost wear everyday. Perhaps the heart is the way to go xx

 

[stonehunter20]

i think they are all timeless! i'd pick any of them and i'd be very happy!

 

[EllenS1]

Heart

 

[Daisys and Diamonds]

Thank you! The flower is also almost half the price of the butterfly, so hmmmmmmmmm....

that's cool because im voting for the flower

 

[123ducklings]

They are all lovely, but I think something pictorial like these should be significant to you. Which is the most “you”? Without knowing you I can’t make a recommendation from the three, but I agree with other posters that a circle would be an elegant, timeless choice.

 

[Big Fat Facets]

you know what?!?

i think i'd better change my earlier opinion. The flower measures at 9.5mm that is much larger than the other 2. i really ought to pay attention more closely instead of just skimming...

i, now, go for the flower

 

[gregchang35]

I woudl choose heart

 

[pearaffair]

Heart

 

[Diamond Girl 21]

I really like the butterfly, except for how it's attached to the chain. I would love it if it hung in an asymmetrical manner. All the choices are pretty though, so you can't go wrong.

 

[AllAboardTheBlingTrain]

If you want something timeless that goes with everything, I would think that the flower or the heart would be the best option, but I personally prefer the flower. My no 1 choice however would be for a round brilliant in a halo, or a circle pendant, or anything along those lines since that is much more of a classic in my book! The WF one Kaycee posted is just gorgeous and so, so timeless and chic.

 

[motownmama]

Flower

 

[ean]

If you want something timeless that goes with everything, I would think that the flower or the heart would be the best option, but I personally prefer the flower. My no 1 choice however would be for a round brilliant in a halo, or a circle pendant, or anything along those lines since that is much more of a classic in my book! The WF one Kaycee posted is just gorgeous and so, so timeless and chic.

I am actually considering a round brilliant in a halo too. But I felt like shaking things up and not playing it “too safe” I suppose? Ha!