What a gorgeous ring!! I love it. I also vote for the first band. However, if you want more bling, you may be able to have 2 small bands or you can try a small band between your ER and your 3rd picture of a band. I do love the first band, but I love some serious bling too! I’m deciding the same thing right now with my ER. I’m picking an eternity band and I have the dilemma of loving a large eternity band vs. the band really flowing with my ER.