lucyandroger
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Yeah....If he couldn't find a "special" enough day to propose between January of this year and Valentines Day of next year, he's not trying very hard.Date: 11/11/2009 1:00:37 PM
Author: decodelighted
And that PERFECT moment is TOTES worth his future fiance UNRAVELING for three *more* months. So much so that he won't even discuss her feelings? Will just threaten her with super suave lines like 'you make me not want to do it'. You Make Me. Blame. Shame. Mind games.Date: 11/11/2009 12:50:45 PM
Author: TooPatient
Maybe he's waiting for Valentines Day?
Read your own 'handle'. TooPatient. Ya. That.
Waiting, I'm of the opinion that no topics should be off limits for a couple. You should talk to him and find out what's going on. If he isn't ready for marriage, you need to know that and figure out what to do next.
ETA - I'm so sorry you're going through this Waiting. You honestly have the patience of a saint. I'm not sure if you are a Sex and the City fan but this thread really reminds me of the original "He's just not that into you" episode. Lots of ladies are making excuses for the guy and elaborate stories about waiting for specific days, when it seems pretty clear that there is SOMETHING going on here. You really should explore that even if he proposes tomorrow. You shouldn't go into marriage wondering what the heck took so long.
I absolutely love what Starset Princess said about not being a hard decision...so true.