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"the most successful one being simply showing consumers various options at or within their budget, asking them which diamond they would prefer on the finger "
I'm sure it works on some people. Maybe on most for all I know, much like car dealers are successful selling monthly payments to people blinded by the shiny colors, showroom lights and that new car smell.
But to make every possible sale they need to tailor their approach to each individual customer.
My fiancee went into a Diamonds Direct to look at settings and to try and decide if she wanted a 1.5 carat round or a 2.0 carat round or maybe something in between. The salesman wanted to show her set diamonds without revealing what size the stones were (or the color or the quality or the price.) When she had decided on her favorite he would then, he said, tell her something about it. It never got that far...
I'd been giving her a primer on the basics of cut using examples from WF and she insisted that what she needed to know wasn't what he was pushing. Then he got flustered and put his foot in his mouth without ever attempting to answer any of her questions... "And where is your fiance today?" She said she looked at him and said, "Why?" (Insert the sound of crickets.)
He shouldn't have implied that a 63-year-old woman with children and grandchildren, 2 college degrees, post-grad work and a counseling license needs a man's help to make up her mind. He should have answered her questions before asking his.
The day before we'd been in a 3-state chain store - Fink's - at the local expensive mall and the saleswoman told us that their gemologist graded their diamonds and if a diamond was in the lower third of a color they would grade it a letter lower. And no, lab reports were not available even by request. She showed us a 1 carat and a 2 carat - big whoop. Nice lights in the ceiling. No help at all on the diamond details. Not available.
Anyway, retail is a funny thing. There are all sorts of methods used to separate folks from their money.
A formerly high end Richmond store is now part of a mega-chain. The salesman told me I didn't need to buy anything higher than an I or a J. I told him I wanted an F or maybe an E and asked what he could get and what my choices were. (Insert more crickets chirping.) Dang it, I HATE having to work to spend my money. I got no help at all. I suppose a rich retired guy in shorts and tackle shop t-shirt from the beach - new, right out of the package - didn't impress him. He didn't even offer to show me Hearts on Fire rings when I looked into the case. (I've worked retail, don't assume, keep the conversatoin flowing.)
I ordered two wedding rings from WF today. They even give a small discount to return customers. I like spending money locally, but they have to add some value to the deal to make a sale.
Oh well, enough whining.
I'm sure it works on some people. Maybe on most for all I know, much like car dealers are successful selling monthly payments to people blinded by the shiny colors, showroom lights and that new car smell.
But to make every possible sale they need to tailor their approach to each individual customer.
My fiancee went into a Diamonds Direct to look at settings and to try and decide if she wanted a 1.5 carat round or a 2.0 carat round or maybe something in between. The salesman wanted to show her set diamonds without revealing what size the stones were (or the color or the quality or the price.) When she had decided on her favorite he would then, he said, tell her something about it. It never got that far...
I'd been giving her a primer on the basics of cut using examples from WF and she insisted that what she needed to know wasn't what he was pushing. Then he got flustered and put his foot in his mouth without ever attempting to answer any of her questions... "And where is your fiance today?" She said she looked at him and said, "Why?" (Insert the sound of crickets.)
He shouldn't have implied that a 63-year-old woman with children and grandchildren, 2 college degrees, post-grad work and a counseling license needs a man's help to make up her mind. He should have answered her questions before asking his.
The day before we'd been in a 3-state chain store - Fink's - at the local expensive mall and the saleswoman told us that their gemologist graded their diamonds and if a diamond was in the lower third of a color they would grade it a letter lower. And no, lab reports were not available even by request. She showed us a 1 carat and a 2 carat - big whoop. Nice lights in the ceiling. No help at all on the diamond details. Not available.
Anyway, retail is a funny thing. There are all sorts of methods used to separate folks from their money.
A formerly high end Richmond store is now part of a mega-chain. The salesman told me I didn't need to buy anything higher than an I or a J. I told him I wanted an F or maybe an E and asked what he could get and what my choices were. (Insert more crickets chirping.) Dang it, I HATE having to work to spend my money. I got no help at all. I suppose a rich retired guy in shorts and tackle shop t-shirt from the beach - new, right out of the package - didn't impress him. He didn't even offer to show me Hearts on Fire rings when I looked into the case. (I've worked retail, don't assume, keep the conversatoin flowing.)
I ordered two wedding rings from WF today. They even give a small discount to return customers. I like spending money locally, but they have to add some value to the deal to make a sale.
Oh well, enough whining.