ritaareynolds
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Oct 17, 2007
- Messages
- 22
Help!
I have fallen in love with the most incredible man. We are planning to get married in early July. Why the rush? Well I''m pregnant & very excited. I had given up on a fabulous man & baby & then poof!
Sooooo.... In my previous lifes I have acquired a 4 ct. marquis & an 8 ct. radiant. My F is not financially able to shop in that market - yet. He has been shopping and I am ashamed to say that I really think he is about to be ripped off. He is so excited & wants to buy something RIGHT NOW!!
I feel like since this is not our first engagement & we are both working professionals I should contribute (trade-in, help shop, etc.) but my sister & BF said that I would hurt his feelings and ego. This should be a ring to me from him without my input or trade in. I don''t want to hurt his feelings in any way but I don''t want him to buy something & pay too much. I asked him to please consider just picking out a wedding band w/lots of bling of course & then shop for ER. He is considering.
Or to please, let me trade in a diamond to help off set $$. I view my ER as a ring that will passed on to our son. Am I being rude? How can I handle this without being overbearing and keep his ego in tact?
How do you shop for a WB w/o ER? I nned pics of the most fab WB. Thanks so much!!! RR
I have fallen in love with the most incredible man. We are planning to get married in early July. Why the rush? Well I''m pregnant & very excited. I had given up on a fabulous man & baby & then poof!
Sooooo.... In my previous lifes I have acquired a 4 ct. marquis & an 8 ct. radiant. My F is not financially able to shop in that market - yet. He has been shopping and I am ashamed to say that I really think he is about to be ripped off. He is so excited & wants to buy something RIGHT NOW!!
I feel like since this is not our first engagement & we are both working professionals I should contribute (trade-in, help shop, etc.) but my sister & BF said that I would hurt his feelings and ego. This should be a ring to me from him without my input or trade in. I don''t want to hurt his feelings in any way but I don''t want him to buy something & pay too much. I asked him to please consider just picking out a wedding band w/lots of bling of course & then shop for ER. He is considering.
Or to please, let me trade in a diamond to help off set $$. I view my ER as a ring that will passed on to our son. Am I being rude? How can I handle this without being overbearing and keep his ego in tact?
How do you shop for a WB w/o ER? I nned pics of the most fab WB. Thanks so much!!! RR