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Brilliant_Rock
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Yeah... I agree too with Chrono about the windowing. Doesn''t seem quite right.Date: 3/14/2009 9:36:58 PM
Author: tourmaline_lover
It''s difficult to see the cut because either the photos are too dark, or the stone is too dark.
Date: 3/15/2009 11:08:12 AM
Author: yingh
No - it was sold as a regular spinel. I thought I saw a window and made comments about the cut without carefully watching my tone. It came across as a criticism. The cut is a very nice guy that is loved by PSer''s . I apologized repeatedly, feeling so guilty! However, still can''t say that I love this cut. The center of the spinel seemed sleepy to me,
QUOTE]Date: 3/15/2009 6:53:12 AM
Author: LovingDiamonds
Yingh - this spinel looks very familiar to me. Was it sold as a ''colour change spinel'' by any chance?
You should not feel awkward. You don''t like the stone, no big deal...the cutter should and will be able to live with it. Don''t keep it for the sake of not hurting his feelings any more (or whatever it is you are feeling). It''s a business. You buy, you don''t like, you return.Date: 3/16/2009 1:01:14 AM
Author: yingh
I never liked this spinel. There is something about the sleepy center that really bothered me from the moment I saw it. However, I felt very guilty due to my big-mouthed comments on the cut - I told the cutter that I saw a window and the table was on the larger side, and some other comments like that. That totally upset him. I felt really bad for not being sensitive to feelings of others. I straightened it out with the cutter and learned a GOOD lesson about communication. The cutter did offer that I can still return it. However, I feel kind of awkward to do that now.
I agree! Consider this a business deal. You don''t LOVE the stone in any way, shape, or form. Life is too short for non-dreamy gemsDate: 3/16/2009 7:01:03 AM
Author: babysteps
Ditto - don''t keep it out of guilt. You don''t love it now, and I doubt you will grow to love it - in fact, if you keep it out of regret it will probably bug you every time you look at it. Return it and let it find a happy home. (I''m sure your vendor would not want you to keep it out of awkwardness, etc. - he just wants your continued business!)
THAT upset him? You've got to be kidding, right? I know people take pride in their work, but as business people, they need to be able to take/accept criticism as well.Date: 3/16/2009 1:01:14 AM
Author: yingh
I never liked this spinel. There is something about the sleepy center that really bothered me from the moment I saw it. However, I felt very guilty due to my big-mouthed comments on the cut - I told the cutter that I saw a window and the table was on the larger side, and some other comments like that. That totally upset him. I felt really bad for not being sensitive to feelings of others. I straightened it out with the cutter and learned a GOOD lesson about communication. The cutter did offer that I can still return it. However, I feel kind of awkward to do that now.