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I had a (3-stone) diamond ring made when I was of a mind that I still wanted a beautiful diamond ring even if I was not married (divorced as of last May). But going through the process kind of got over it. I also didn't want people misinterpreting the significance of a diamond ring.
Anyways wore it today (right hand) because I bought it and might as well enjoy it, and yep, one coworker I ran into the hallway stopped me and asked how I was doing and we ending up catching up. I thought I saw her looking at the ring but didn't say anything. And while exiting a meeting another coworker stopped me and asked what's up, I see the ring. and I explained laughingly it was my mid life crisis ring, and she told me that people are going to think I'm engaged if I wear that!
It's a 3 stone design worn on my right hand. I DO NOT want people thinking i'm engaged (or having to explain to everyone I'm not engaged) !!!
Should I have gotten a colored stone ring instead, since there is not such an connotation with that and engagement? Or not wear the ring?
Anyways wore it today (right hand) because I bought it and might as well enjoy it, and yep, one coworker I ran into the hallway stopped me and asked how I was doing and we ending up catching up. I thought I saw her looking at the ring but didn't say anything. And while exiting a meeting another coworker stopped me and asked what's up, I see the ring. and I explained laughingly it was my mid life crisis ring, and she told me that people are going to think I'm engaged if I wear that!
It's a 3 stone design worn on my right hand. I DO NOT want people thinking i'm engaged (or having to explain to everyone I'm not engaged) !!!
Should I have gotten a colored stone ring instead, since there is not such an connotation with that and engagement? Or not wear the ring?
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