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Happy new week all
Lat week we were discussing how the mind is a very powerful tool to enable us to have a healthier lifestyle, also how mindset changes can take time. Case in point was my day yesterday. I was having the hardest time craving sweet things ( not TTOTM) but just a general terrible hankering for sweet stuff. I fought it all day, had healthy meals, didn't let myself get too hungry, had fruit and a workout, a little chocolate and evening came and I was still craving like crazy. I was really feeling a failure until I realised what had happened. I had drifted back into my old way of thinking which had made the whole thing worse. I had allowed negative thoughts to overwhelm me - if I had just accepted the fact that today was one of those days we all have - and not a slippery slope for the scales to shoot up - then I would have been fine and got over it. Instead I was making a mountain out of a molehill, expecting perfection and my body and mind to be a consistent, well behaved machine!
Today I feel much better. I think sometimes you have to go with the flow, allow yourself some of the things you are craving, then carry on with your healthy routines as normal. As we all know, it isn't that which makes you gain weight, but consistently eating too much of the wrong foods every day which cause weight to creep up. I am over it today, am wearing my tightest jeans which seem to fit better already after my new weight routines! Trying to be perfect didn't work for me in the past, so I have learned from yesterday that I still need to work on practising a new healthy attitude, probably for a lifetime - but that is ok. Far better that than that miserable see saw I was bouncing around on for so many years and I know in time, a more positive mindset will come easier to me.
treadmill is still pants
Have a great week

Lat week we were discussing how the mind is a very powerful tool to enable us to have a healthier lifestyle, also how mindset changes can take time. Case in point was my day yesterday. I was having the hardest time craving sweet things ( not TTOTM) but just a general terrible hankering for sweet stuff. I fought it all day, had healthy meals, didn't let myself get too hungry, had fruit and a workout, a little chocolate and evening came and I was still craving like crazy. I was really feeling a failure until I realised what had happened. I had drifted back into my old way of thinking which had made the whole thing worse. I had allowed negative thoughts to overwhelm me - if I had just accepted the fact that today was one of those days we all have - and not a slippery slope for the scales to shoot up - then I would have been fine and got over it. Instead I was making a mountain out of a molehill, expecting perfection and my body and mind to be a consistent, well behaved machine!
Today I feel much better. I think sometimes you have to go with the flow, allow yourself some of the things you are craving, then carry on with your healthy routines as normal. As we all know, it isn't that which makes you gain weight, but consistently eating too much of the wrong foods every day which cause weight to creep up. I am over it today, am wearing my tightest jeans which seem to fit better already after my new weight routines! Trying to be perfect didn't work for me in the past, so I have learned from yesterday that I still need to work on practising a new healthy attitude, probably for a lifetime - but that is ok. Far better that than that miserable see saw I was bouncing around on for so many years and I know in time, a more positive mindset will come easier to me.
treadmill is still pants
Have a great week
