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I''m so sorry to hear about being laid off Monnie. Having just been through this, I know how it feels. Sounds like you have a great positive attitude though and since you had not been there too many years, it wasn''t a horrible shock. Still, losing a job is just not fun by any stretch of the imagination.Date: 6/15/2007 11:47:36 AM
Author: monarch64
Well, I got some bad news today...my position at work was eliminated effective immediately and now I''m unemployed, wah!Actually I''m really not that broken up about it, I will miss the people but it wasn''t exactly my dream job so I''m looking at this as an opportunity for positive change, which kind of excites me. Really the only negative is going through the hassle of changing insurance carriers since DH and I were both on my policy through my company and now we''ll have to switch to his, which is way more expensive and not as good, plus he doesn''t have dental, so in my upcoming job search that will be a primary concern as far as benefits packages. My two bosses who delivered the news were really cool about it and offered letters of recommendation and references, one even gave me his card with his home # which was really nice. I started at this company as a temp a couple years ago and was permanently hired, but I had a feeling it might not last forever so it''s not a complete shock, plus I''ve been toying with the idea of finding something new and more challenging anyway. I''m definitely a glass-half-full kind of gal.![]()
So, I guess I''ll have a little more time on my hands to work out now, hee hee!
I''m really looking forward to going out with my girlfriend for dinner and some retail therapy tonight. I think mama deserves a new pair of shoes to offset the morning''s negative energy, LOL!
I was actually getting used being unemployed (hmmmm, not good) and kind of loved my schedule (maybe a bit too much). But I recommend you take some "me" time and not dwell or stress on this. It''s usually a good idea to stick to some type of routine. For example, while I didn''t bound out of bed at 7 AM everyday, I did get up at a reasonable time and took a shower and got dressed and had some breakfast. Then I hit the job boards for a couple hours, then I took some "me" time and sat under our oak tree at Starbucks and enjoyed a cup of coffee, followed by lunch with Charlie, then back to job boarding only till 3 PM. At that point, I shut the job search off and spent the last few hours of the day doing what I wanted. For me, that meant going to the gym in the afternoon when the gym wasn''t crowded and it was just the best thing I could do. I did it every day and I so enjoyed my extra time at the gym. It helped to give me additional purpose and I knew I was doing something really good for me mentally and physically.
Now, what you do is completely up to you. But make sure you create a game plan and stick to that plan, with extra "you" time thrown in.
Again, so sorry you''re having to go through this. There''s a terrific position sitting out there for you I''m sure!!

