loveisblind
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Feb 7, 2010
- Messages
- 4
So I had my Hen''s night, last Saturday night at a theme restaurant filled with other Hen''s nights, with a magician, drag queen singer and 4 course meal.
All in all it was a great however, I was a bit upset at what two of my guest''s did.
First of all it was raining pretty hard, and all up I was meant to have 11 guests. When I arrived at 7.30pm , 9 guests had arrived and we were all seated - 2 were missing ( both are partners of my fiance''s friends).
We sit and wait for the arrival of our other 2 guests. We wait 20 mins. The waiters/ waitresses keep asking if we are ready to order, and finally after having waited we order. The night went well with 2 empty spots on our table till about 9pm.
At 9pm, after about 3 cocktails I made my way to the toilet, and upon opening the door to my surprise I found my two missing guests standing there. My first response was " wow.. what are you doing here... gee.. when I first saw you I thought you were from another hen''s night". They gave their excuse that they had waited 1.5 hours for a taxi ( the venue is a 30min drive from there house). We exchanged a hug and a kiss and I said " We have already had our entree, but I''ll see if I can get mains organised for you" to which they replied "great!" I return to my seat and they remain in the toilet.
Five minutes later I see them both exiting the resteraunt. No reason, No goodbye, No apologies. By this stage the staff had reset the table, after waiting 10mins for them to return I had to explain to the waiters that I did not know if they would be returning. I was really upset and embarrased . I did not have their numbers, as they were my fiances friends.I became teary in front of family and friends, because I was confused by what had happended.
Two days later , I asked my fiance if he could contact them to find out what had happened. He finally got an email today from one of the girls he also works with this is what it said:
"Hey (Fiances Name),
Hope you had fun on your buck’s night.
Yeah (name of friend) and I made the effort to go all the way to Kings Cross for the hens, saw Dimity and she asked what we were we doing there, and were we we there for another hen’s night? Not sure if she has has a few drinks or what was going on, but we were both a little offended after we had made the effort to go.
Sorry we probably should have handled it a bit better and not left the way that we did but we didn’t feel that welcome.
Did you have a good night? "
I was really upset coz I was literlly suprised by the fact they turned up 1.5hours late and didn''t seem offended when i said I would get there mains organised. I tried calling one of them, but she wouldn''t take my call. So fuming I sent an email which said,
Hi (Girls name),
I was forwarded your email from (fiance''s name), because I was upset by your quiet
departure at my Hen''s on Saturday, in fact I was more than upset I was
embarrassd in front of resteraunt staff and became teary in front of
family and friends. Bad enough that you arrived 1.5 hours late to a
sit down meal, bit then after I was greeted by you , surprisingly
outside the toilet out of all places and said " gee I am so suprised,
I thought you were from another hens party when I saw you " and then
hear your excuse to which I replied after a kiss and a hug " we have
already had our entre''s I''ll try and get mains organized for you " to
your response of " great! " I didn''t sense that I had offended you.
I was confused when I saw you and (girls name) leaving without notice. I was
left to pay the bill for both your absenses.
And also left to try and explain what happened to staff at the
resteraunt who had set , unset and reset and unset your places at the
table.
I must say I had a great night, even with your absense. Sure, I
probably could have rephrased my words when I met you however, I , as
any bride to be would have, I had a few drinks by 9pm a night.
How you and (girls name) behaved was really rude, disrespectable and
inapproproate. If you do still intend on coming to my wedding please
do not behave in such a manner and don''t expect me to show overt
friendliness towards you.
My fiancé would still really like you and your husband, his
friend to come to our wedding. However should you wish not to come
please let us know as soon as possible so we can arrange for someone
else to come, who would actually want to be there.
Regards,
(my name)
Mobile number
Am I just becoming a Bridezilla? Or would you too be offended. My wedding is in 2 weeks and I rather they did not turn up, after how they behaved. What do yuu think?
All in all it was a great however, I was a bit upset at what two of my guest''s did.
First of all it was raining pretty hard, and all up I was meant to have 11 guests. When I arrived at 7.30pm , 9 guests had arrived and we were all seated - 2 were missing ( both are partners of my fiance''s friends).
We sit and wait for the arrival of our other 2 guests. We wait 20 mins. The waiters/ waitresses keep asking if we are ready to order, and finally after having waited we order. The night went well with 2 empty spots on our table till about 9pm.
At 9pm, after about 3 cocktails I made my way to the toilet, and upon opening the door to my surprise I found my two missing guests standing there. My first response was " wow.. what are you doing here... gee.. when I first saw you I thought you were from another hen''s night". They gave their excuse that they had waited 1.5 hours for a taxi ( the venue is a 30min drive from there house). We exchanged a hug and a kiss and I said " We have already had our entree, but I''ll see if I can get mains organised for you" to which they replied "great!" I return to my seat and they remain in the toilet.
Five minutes later I see them both exiting the resteraunt. No reason, No goodbye, No apologies. By this stage the staff had reset the table, after waiting 10mins for them to return I had to explain to the waiters that I did not know if they would be returning. I was really upset and embarrased . I did not have their numbers, as they were my fiances friends.I became teary in front of family and friends, because I was confused by what had happended.
Two days later , I asked my fiance if he could contact them to find out what had happened. He finally got an email today from one of the girls he also works with this is what it said:
"Hey (Fiances Name),
Hope you had fun on your buck’s night.
Yeah (name of friend) and I made the effort to go all the way to Kings Cross for the hens, saw Dimity and she asked what we were we doing there, and were we we there for another hen’s night? Not sure if she has has a few drinks or what was going on, but we were both a little offended after we had made the effort to go.
Sorry we probably should have handled it a bit better and not left the way that we did but we didn’t feel that welcome.
Did you have a good night? "
I was really upset coz I was literlly suprised by the fact they turned up 1.5hours late and didn''t seem offended when i said I would get there mains organised. I tried calling one of them, but she wouldn''t take my call. So fuming I sent an email which said,
Hi (Girls name),
I was forwarded your email from (fiance''s name), because I was upset by your quiet
departure at my Hen''s on Saturday, in fact I was more than upset I was
embarrassd in front of resteraunt staff and became teary in front of
family and friends. Bad enough that you arrived 1.5 hours late to a
sit down meal, bit then after I was greeted by you , surprisingly
outside the toilet out of all places and said " gee I am so suprised,
I thought you were from another hens party when I saw you " and then
hear your excuse to which I replied after a kiss and a hug " we have
already had our entre''s I''ll try and get mains organized for you " to
your response of " great! " I didn''t sense that I had offended you.
I was confused when I saw you and (girls name) leaving without notice. I was
left to pay the bill for both your absenses.
And also left to try and explain what happened to staff at the
resteraunt who had set , unset and reset and unset your places at the
table.
I must say I had a great night, even with your absense. Sure, I
probably could have rephrased my words when I met you however, I , as
any bride to be would have, I had a few drinks by 9pm a night.
How you and (girls name) behaved was really rude, disrespectable and
inapproproate. If you do still intend on coming to my wedding please
do not behave in such a manner and don''t expect me to show overt
friendliness towards you.
My fiancé would still really like you and your husband, his
friend to come to our wedding. However should you wish not to come
please let us know as soon as possible so we can arrange for someone
else to come, who would actually want to be there.
Regards,
(my name)
Mobile number
Am I just becoming a Bridezilla? Or would you too be offended. My wedding is in 2 weeks and I rather they did not turn up, after how they behaved. What do yuu think?