DiamondsNPearls
Brilliant_Rock
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braga123|1389326684|3590036 said:caribbeanbridetobe|1389315341|3589878 said:Hi everyone so instead of lurking the board, I am wondering how soon it is expected for upgrading.
I may have an opportunity to *possibly* get a new center stone, I am desiring a brighter color which is something I've always wanted. I have a J round brilliant now, & I like how the H looks & I could see the difference with the white color versus a more antique white (like my J) . Is there much of a difference? My J is 1.02ct with flouro.
I am thinking I'd want an H color, but possibly a smaller stone, if I were to get a 1ct H Si2, it would be around $4000 & I have no idea whether it would be a good idea to get a smaller stone for more sparkle & more *white*. I don't want larger than a 1ct. I'm also interested in a cushion cut (I have a cushion halo) 1.00ct which is $2000 cheaper.
It sounds like you have 2 concerns. Your first concern has to do with timing. You are obviously not 100 percent satisfied with your ring because you are contemplating an upgrade in terms of the quality of the stone. You mention you want to improve color and want it to sparkle more. You also mention that you don't want to upset your fiance and frankly, this comment is what makes me wonder if just changing your stone is going to be enough. You might spend all that money and then have another issue. You need to be honest with your fiance so that you can get the overall ring that you really want.
I'm not 100% w the color. I did have some issues with the ring, but I am overcoming them. It sparkles when it's clean, but I'd like it to face up a little whiter. That's all, I'm Colombian, so I am not too worried about GIA/AGS etc. etc. I think it is more of an American thing? Because over there, if you have a diamond, that already says a lot. But I just want the whiter for myself & my fiance is aware of it, he jokes that if I keep asking for rings, I will look like Mike Tyson (my fiance is Colombian as well jajaja)
Anyways, that's it. We are honest w/ each other & he is aware of my ring mania/fixation. What can I say? Its the finest piece of jewelery I own.