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Shiny_Rock
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There were a few guests who didn''t give us gifts at our wedding and, with the exception of ONE of those people, I wasn''t bothered in the least.
The one person who did irk me for lack of gift giving, however, is one of DH''s closest friends. I don''t know why, but this particular friend had bragged to us and our whole group of friends about what a HUGE gift he was planning to give us for the wedding. It didn''t even occur to us until we were almost done writing our thank-you''s that we didn''t have a gift from him.
DH asked him if his gift might have been misplaced (read: VERY innocent question coming from DH, especially since the friend had hyped it up for months). When asked, he just shuffled his feet and mumbled something about not having enough money in his checking account to give us what he WANTED to give us. That''s just fine, except that he never even wrote us a card or actually ever congratulated us on our marriage.
What really bothered my husband, though, was that a few days later the friend mentioned how he''d just bought himself a $400 collector''s edition video game console. I felt so bad for DH, who was torn between being angry at his friend and being ashamed of himself for having expected anything in the first place
The one person who did irk me for lack of gift giving, however, is one of DH''s closest friends. I don''t know why, but this particular friend had bragged to us and our whole group of friends about what a HUGE gift he was planning to give us for the wedding. It didn''t even occur to us until we were almost done writing our thank-you''s that we didn''t have a gift from him.
DH asked him if his gift might have been misplaced (read: VERY innocent question coming from DH, especially since the friend had hyped it up for months). When asked, he just shuffled his feet and mumbled something about not having enough money in his checking account to give us what he WANTED to give us. That''s just fine, except that he never even wrote us a card or actually ever congratulated us on our marriage.
What really bothered my husband, though, was that a few days later the friend mentioned how he''d just bought himself a $400 collector''s edition video game console. I felt so bad for DH, who was torn between being angry at his friend and being ashamed of himself for having expected anything in the first place