jcrow
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who should walk me down the aisle? i''m stumped with this decision so i thought i''d ask for some feedback on this issue.
no dad in picture, so that''s out. here are the choices, though i''m sure there are more!
grandpa.
uncle. (god-father)
solo.
let me give you some background... i always thought it''d be my grandpa that i''d ask. he''s the only real male that''s been in my life growing up. i always adored him although he''s such a manly man, he''d never know it. i see a different side of him now, though. drinking. it''s like he has to drink to be social. and it/he makes EVERYONE in the room uncomfortable. it''s become an issue and no one wants to confront him. it sorta makes me sick.
my uncle never was around much growing up. he always worked over seas.
my cousin (who''s hosting the wedding and is like a mom to me) said that she always pictured me walking solo. she even went as far as to say it''s the dress that''s so wide (yeh, whatever, it''s an a-line) that whoever walks with you is going to step all over it, therefore it should me me solo down that aisle. I mean come on!
and i asked my grandpa and uncle to get fitted for tuxes because like the grandparents and moms i''m having my aunt, mom, uncle, cousin and grandparents walk in the wedding prior to the bridesmaids. well everyone thought by that i meant that my uncle was walking me down the aisle and my GP was going to be the back up in case my uncle was working over seas. come on family! get it together, i NEVER said anything about me and that aisle. urgh.
thoughts?
no dad in picture, so that''s out. here are the choices, though i''m sure there are more!
grandpa.
uncle. (god-father)
solo.
let me give you some background... i always thought it''d be my grandpa that i''d ask. he''s the only real male that''s been in my life growing up. i always adored him although he''s such a manly man, he''d never know it. i see a different side of him now, though. drinking. it''s like he has to drink to be social. and it/he makes EVERYONE in the room uncomfortable. it''s become an issue and no one wants to confront him. it sorta makes me sick.
my uncle never was around much growing up. he always worked over seas.
my cousin (who''s hosting the wedding and is like a mom to me) said that she always pictured me walking solo. she even went as far as to say it''s the dress that''s so wide (yeh, whatever, it''s an a-line) that whoever walks with you is going to step all over it, therefore it should me me solo down that aisle. I mean come on!
and i asked my grandpa and uncle to get fitted for tuxes because like the grandparents and moms i''m having my aunt, mom, uncle, cousin and grandparents walk in the wedding prior to the bridesmaids. well everyone thought by that i meant that my uncle was walking me down the aisle and my GP was going to be the back up in case my uncle was working over seas. come on family! get it together, i NEVER said anything about me and that aisle. urgh.
thoughts?