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Brilliant_Rock
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A recent article in TIME discussed a study that determined spanking children has long-term effects, such as defiance and aggressive behavior. Link to Article While I didn''t pick a part the study, this is an interesting topic and it got me thinking. FI and I do not have children yet, but we plan to TTC within the next year and frequently talk about how we''ll raise our kids, what we will and won''t do, etc.
I was personally never spanked, and FI and I have decided not to spank our children. Although he was spanked (in the back of Catholic Mass on several occasions!), we will not spank our children as we feel it will only instill fear and that there must be a better way to communicate consequences than making them afraid. That said, I know many believe in using and the laws fully protect corporal punishment. In some states, even teachers are allowed to impose reasonable corporal punishment.
What are your experiences with spanking and what are your thoughts as to its effects.
I was personally never spanked, and FI and I have decided not to spank our children. Although he was spanked (in the back of Catholic Mass on several occasions!), we will not spank our children as we feel it will only instill fear and that there must be a better way to communicate consequences than making them afraid. That said, I know many believe in using and the laws fully protect corporal punishment. In some states, even teachers are allowed to impose reasonable corporal punishment.
What are your experiences with spanking and what are your thoughts as to its effects.