Hi all, I wear a size 9 ring and have very stubby, short fingers. Despite the fact that rings really never look good on me for this reason, I still want to get a solitaire for my 25th anniversary (which is actually 3 years away but I'm planning ahead, LOL). I have an 80-point family stone that was recut by BGD; I had them make it into a pendant because I decided it was just too small as a ring (for me personally). I don't need or want a huge stone, so what is the smallest carat size that would look proportional on my finger? Interested in an OEC. Thanks for any help with this.