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So I follow this woman on ig—she works for one of my jewelers and recently she posted the most elaborate proposal. And a lot of people went out of their way to make it happen! Friends, family... I kept thinking how fabulous one must feel to see all that effort. But I’d be naive to think that in her case, she had nothing to do with it. It played out like a commercial for a wedding planner and jeweler, lol, after she tagged and thanked everyone. But I’m a sucker for the genuine proposals.
That's really it, isn't it? It's not about the ring itself. It's not even about the effort itself. It's about effort put specifically into making her feel wonderful.
That's why I have such an apathetic response to "I'm researching the heck out of this because I want to buy The Best Diamond" and such a heartfelt response to "Help me get her what She Would Like Best".