I may have these terms mixed up, but that is why I'm here. I love the look of a u prong band (first picture) but I worry that it won't be durable enough, meaning, diamonds are more likely to fall out. I'm pretty rough on my hands/jewelry and I obviously don't want to lose stones. If the u prong is not durable, is there another setting with minimal metal that would be better? Shared prong perhaps? OR, is there such a thing as a u prong/shared prong hybrid? I'll include a pic of my dream band below (the u prong).