I'd like to have an eternity ring custom made and am interested in a setting with gold bars (claw setting?) between the diamonds. The jeweller discouraged me from doing this, as he says that its not a very secure setting and the stones will easily fall out. When I buy this setting he recommends the ring to be worn only occasionaly. I'm in doubt now whether to go ahead with the claw setting or take a 4 point setting. Any recommendations? Thanks very much.