Random Questions for Buying Engagement Ring

[gorillaazdude]

I'm looking to buy an engagement ring soon. I've read dozens of FAQS and guide, but I still have some odd questions...


1. If you see a diamond you like, can you ask to use their loupe? Is that rude? Or do you bring your own? I can't imagine myself being the kind of guy who whips out a loupe from his pocket.

2. Can you negotiate on prices? I've never been able to negotiate on anything around here.

3. Do you ask for the certification and grading right away or is that off-putting?

4. My girlfriend has metal allergies. Do they actually know what metals are in their alloys? The last time I was buying a valentine's gift I asked and got answers like "white gold is a mixture of gold and white metal" and "18K gold is 100% pure gold made white" before I just left.

5. Are all salesmen diamond experts? How do you tell? Can I ask for a diamond expert? Is the manager an expert on diamonds, or just someone who's good at managing diamond stores?


Thanks!

 

[slg47]

I'm looking to buy an engagement ring soon. I've read dozens of FAQS and guide, but I still have some odd questions...


1. If you see a diamond you like, can you ask to use their loupe? Is that rude? Or do you bring your own? I can't imagine myself being the kind of guy who whips out a loupe from his pocket.

yes. it is not considered rude.

2. Can you negotiate on prices? I've never been able to negotiate on anything around here.

you can try!

3. Do you ask for the certification and grading right away or is that off-putting?

I would unless you are doing a blind color comparison.

4. My girlfriend has metal allergies. Do they actually know what metals are in their alloys? The last time I was buying a valentine's gift I asked and got answers like "white gold is a mixture of gold and white metal" and "18K gold is 100% pure gold made white" before I just left.

some stores may, some stores may not. stick with a store that can tell you.

5. Are all salesmen diamond experts? How do you tell? Can I ask for a diamond expert? Is the manager an expert on diamonds, or just someone who's good at managing diamond stores?


Thanks!

definitely not...as far as asking for a diamond expert I am not sure how that would go. every store is different and the manager may or may not be an expert.

 

[Gypsy]

Most sales staff at most jewelry stores are ignorant, ill trained and will embody the motto: Often wrong but never in doubt. There are a few exceptions but they are rare. If you want to shop in person let us know what metro area you are near and we can send you to stores that are the exception. Stay away from anything in a mall and most chain stores.