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Shiny_Rock
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I think it all depends on the state you divorce in.
My sister recently divorced a complete loser who never held a job longer than six months, was a drug addict and used their children against her. She has worked for a city for over 20 years. You probably see where this is going...
She pays him alimony until death, he gets half her retirement and she pays child support even though they share 50/50 custody. Debt is split in half, they had no equity in the house, so fire sale just to be rid of it. All of this in Southern California settles outside of court. Here you better get settled out of court or try very hard before getting in front of the judge.
Freedom is priceless to a lot of people. Your friend may value freedom more than monetary gains.
My sister recently divorced a complete loser who never held a job longer than six months, was a drug addict and used their children against her. She has worked for a city for over 20 years. You probably see where this is going...
She pays him alimony until death, he gets half her retirement and she pays child support even though they share 50/50 custody. Debt is split in half, they had no equity in the house, so fire sale just to be rid of it. All of this in Southern California settles outside of court. Here you better get settled out of court or try very hard before getting in front of the judge.
Freedom is priceless to a lot of people. Your friend may value freedom more than monetary gains.