My boyfriend and I are starting the process of looking/browsing rings. I am fascinated by diamonds and all the variations that contribute to quality. I have read so much and feel confident that I would know how to pick out a great one. My boyfriend on the other hand, hates to shop and usually buys the first thing he sees. I really want to be involved in the diamond purchasing process--not just to ensure a great deal and stone but I am a shopper at heart and find this all so exciting. So....I guess what I am trying to ask of you men out there is how would you feel about your girlfriend being in on the whole selection process? Would you feel hurt by it? etc.