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SIlly question I guess... obviously I would love to see the ring the day he proposes to me!!!!!
BUT....
We are picking it together because he wants me to have my perfect ring
I don''t *think* I want to go out and pick a diamond and a setting etc before he actually proposes to me... I realise I wouldnt see the final product until the day he does propose but I would know that its coming rather quickly and it wouldn''t feel like much of a surprise...
I know he will propose soon (by soon I mean within a few months) but what would be better:
1. Choose the diamond and the setting beforehand and let him pick up the final product and just wait around until he proposes (at this point its quite obvious he will propose within a short amount of time - so maybe not as exciting)
2. Have him propose without a ring and make it more of a surprise (and then go shopping for the ring)
It would be helpful to know how other PS''ers choose to do it or just really if you have any thoughts on the matter
He has asked me to tell him what I would prefer but I''m torn at the moment! Help!
BUT....
We are picking it together because he wants me to have my perfect ring
I don''t *think* I want to go out and pick a diamond and a setting etc before he actually proposes to me... I realise I wouldnt see the final product until the day he does propose but I would know that its coming rather quickly and it wouldn''t feel like much of a surprise...
I know he will propose soon (by soon I mean within a few months) but what would be better:
1. Choose the diamond and the setting beforehand and let him pick up the final product and just wait around until he proposes (at this point its quite obvious he will propose within a short amount of time - so maybe not as exciting)
2. Have him propose without a ring and make it more of a surprise (and then go shopping for the ring)
It would be helpful to know how other PS''ers choose to do it or just really if you have any thoughts on the matter
He has asked me to tell him what I would prefer but I''m torn at the moment! Help!