Since Phoenix's update, and since I was doing my lengthy self-check yesterday that I do every month, I thought I'd post about this because I've pretty much come to a decision, without too much soul-searching. What I have to say about my decision might help others in my shoes.
I have a stack of risk factors for breast cancer. My mother's mother died of it, and my mother is now in a terminal situation from breast cancer which has spread. It popped up again 13 years after her first bout, in her spine and pelvis, no cure. I have been overweight in the past, and due to a job which was so busy that I was like a cartoon blur, went for quite a few years without doing much exercise, hence the weight gain. I have fixed those areas now, but it did go on for a long time. These are risk factors for breast cancer. However, through my childhood up to my early twenties, I was a very hard exerciser through dance, so that's in my favour. Also, I did not start my periods too early, it was a week after my thirteenth birthday, so that's in my favour too. Early menarche is another risk factor for breast cancer.
Other risk factors that I have are Pill use, previous fibroadenoma, late child-bearing and dense, lumpy fibrocystic breasts, all of which are risk factors.
So, since my mother was re-diagnosed 10 months ago, from the first round in 1999, it's been on my mind whether I should do an Angelina. The pink lobby would have you believe that breast cancer is almost always curable, but in about 20 - 25% of people it comes back, like it has with my mum, and at that stage it's very aggressive. To quote the New York Times, "While the pink-ribbon campaign has raised awareness about breast cancer, it masks a relentless killer." What happens at that stage is that the cancer finds it way around all drugs, eventually. You get a drug, it works for a range of approx 6-24 months, anecdotally a year or so, then it stops working and you go onto the next one until you're out of drugs.
Another one of breast cancer's scarier traits is that it's quite capable of popping up again 20 years later, unlike some other cancers where if you are cured the first time, you stay that way.
So, despite the perkiness of the pink lobby, this disease can be really nasty and I have certainly had reason to consider an Angelina, with my grandma dying of it and my mum presenting 13 years out from initial diagnosis with it mysteriously back in her spine and pelvis (which is terminal).
I was doing my breast check yesterday, mulling it over, and I just felt that, for me, the answer was no.
Mitigating factors: We may have an undiscovered gene. On the other hand, since my grandma was 80, her breast cancer could have been due to old age and my mum's could have been random. It's possible that the two cancers are unconnected.
I had a fibroadenoma, but they are very common in young women.
Doing an Angelina - so both sides - isn't just one op. It's a surgical journey, and can result in lymphodema and restricted use of your shoulders and arms. My mother couldn't raise her arm above shoulder height for the longest time, and she also had complications so had to go back for another op. Anecdotally, there does seem to be quite a high complication rate, and it would be a long time before I had the easy, full range of motion in my shoulders and arms that I now have, if it would ever be quite the same. Doing both sides is obviously worse than one.
Unless you have a super-high risk like Angelina did from her BRCA1 gene (87%), it's quite a thing to do to yourself when you may not need to.
And it occurred to me, you could have a PBMX (prophylactic bilateral mastectomy) - and then you could get colon cancer! Or kidney cancer - a PBMX is no guarantee. Even if you have a PBMX, you still have to go for mammograms because the surgeons can't get all the breast tissue. I had no idea, but you have breast tissue scattered across your abdomen, above the collar bone and in the armpits. So a PBMX doesn't even take away all your risk.
The only thing that makes me second-guess my decision is my extremely hard, lumpy right breast. That's where I had the common fibroadenoma at 21, and I'm suspicious of that breast. It feels very different from the other one.
But, however, I hadn't even thought too hard about the issue, when the answer just came to me yesterday, that it would be a great pity to do that, when I may well not need to. I do eat better and exercise more than the other women in the family, I was always an exerciser in my youth and apart from those few busy years in London, I have exercised hard. I haven't always been consistent with it, but the other women in my family never did a scrap of exercise once in their lives. The significance of this is that recent studies are showing that exercise has a marked effect on breast cancer risk.
So, I have pretty much decided against a PBMX, and I feel quite peaceful with that decision. I think it's important to note that what seems like a risk factor may not be - i.e. it's quite possible that my mother's and grandmother's cancers are unconnected, due to the older ages at which they occurred.
It's also important to note that there are a ton of intensive screening programmes out there for people with family histories of breast cancer.
I hope the factors discussed here might help anyone else who has struggled with the spectre of a PBMX.
I have an older sister who is 42. Of course, if she gets diagnosed with breast cancer, I'll be thoroughly spooked and the picture may change!
I have a stack of risk factors for breast cancer. My mother's mother died of it, and my mother is now in a terminal situation from breast cancer which has spread. It popped up again 13 years after her first bout, in her spine and pelvis, no cure. I have been overweight in the past, and due to a job which was so busy that I was like a cartoon blur, went for quite a few years without doing much exercise, hence the weight gain. I have fixed those areas now, but it did go on for a long time. These are risk factors for breast cancer. However, through my childhood up to my early twenties, I was a very hard exerciser through dance, so that's in my favour. Also, I did not start my periods too early, it was a week after my thirteenth birthday, so that's in my favour too. Early menarche is another risk factor for breast cancer.
Other risk factors that I have are Pill use, previous fibroadenoma, late child-bearing and dense, lumpy fibrocystic breasts, all of which are risk factors.
So, since my mother was re-diagnosed 10 months ago, from the first round in 1999, it's been on my mind whether I should do an Angelina. The pink lobby would have you believe that breast cancer is almost always curable, but in about 20 - 25% of people it comes back, like it has with my mum, and at that stage it's very aggressive. To quote the New York Times, "While the pink-ribbon campaign has raised awareness about breast cancer, it masks a relentless killer." What happens at that stage is that the cancer finds it way around all drugs, eventually. You get a drug, it works for a range of approx 6-24 months, anecdotally a year or so, then it stops working and you go onto the next one until you're out of drugs.
Another one of breast cancer's scarier traits is that it's quite capable of popping up again 20 years later, unlike some other cancers where if you are cured the first time, you stay that way.
So, despite the perkiness of the pink lobby, this disease can be really nasty and I have certainly had reason to consider an Angelina, with my grandma dying of it and my mum presenting 13 years out from initial diagnosis with it mysteriously back in her spine and pelvis (which is terminal).
I was doing my breast check yesterday, mulling it over, and I just felt that, for me, the answer was no.
Mitigating factors: We may have an undiscovered gene. On the other hand, since my grandma was 80, her breast cancer could have been due to old age and my mum's could have been random. It's possible that the two cancers are unconnected.
I had a fibroadenoma, but they are very common in young women.
Doing an Angelina - so both sides - isn't just one op. It's a surgical journey, and can result in lymphodema and restricted use of your shoulders and arms. My mother couldn't raise her arm above shoulder height for the longest time, and she also had complications so had to go back for another op. Anecdotally, there does seem to be quite a high complication rate, and it would be a long time before I had the easy, full range of motion in my shoulders and arms that I now have, if it would ever be quite the same. Doing both sides is obviously worse than one.
Unless you have a super-high risk like Angelina did from her BRCA1 gene (87%), it's quite a thing to do to yourself when you may not need to.
And it occurred to me, you could have a PBMX (prophylactic bilateral mastectomy) - and then you could get colon cancer! Or kidney cancer - a PBMX is no guarantee. Even if you have a PBMX, you still have to go for mammograms because the surgeons can't get all the breast tissue. I had no idea, but you have breast tissue scattered across your abdomen, above the collar bone and in the armpits. So a PBMX doesn't even take away all your risk.
The only thing that makes me second-guess my decision is my extremely hard, lumpy right breast. That's where I had the common fibroadenoma at 21, and I'm suspicious of that breast. It feels very different from the other one.
But, however, I hadn't even thought too hard about the issue, when the answer just came to me yesterday, that it would be a great pity to do that, when I may well not need to. I do eat better and exercise more than the other women in the family, I was always an exerciser in my youth and apart from those few busy years in London, I have exercised hard. I haven't always been consistent with it, but the other women in my family never did a scrap of exercise once in their lives. The significance of this is that recent studies are showing that exercise has a marked effect on breast cancer risk.
So, I have pretty much decided against a PBMX, and I feel quite peaceful with that decision. I think it's important to note that what seems like a risk factor may not be - i.e. it's quite possible that my mother's and grandmother's cancers are unconnected, due to the older ages at which they occurred.
It's also important to note that there are a ton of intensive screening programmes out there for people with family histories of breast cancer.
I hope the factors discussed here might help anyone else who has struggled with the spectre of a PBMX.
I have an older sister who is 42. Of course, if she gets diagnosed with breast cancer, I'll be thoroughly spooked and the picture may change!