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Re: POLL Would You Want To Know If Your SO Was Having An Aff
My vote would be other. It depends on the context. If my husband is having an affair, yes, I want to know. If it was a one-off, no, don't ruin my life and our marriage for your indiscretion, just finish with the person and work on fixing our marriage.
I believe we have a good thing going. It has it's ups and downs like everyone's relationship. I want to stay in this relationship and to do that I don't need to know everything. I need my husband to agree that this is a good thing, this is what he wants, and that we'll work on want we want individually and together as a couple to fulfil both of our needs.
My vote would be other. It depends on the context. If my husband is having an affair, yes, I want to know. If it was a one-off, no, don't ruin my life and our marriage for your indiscretion, just finish with the person and work on fixing our marriage.
I believe we have a good thing going. It has it's ups and downs like everyone's relationship. I want to stay in this relationship and to do that I don't need to know everything. I need my husband to agree that this is a good thing, this is what he wants, and that we'll work on want we want individually and together as a couple to fulfil both of our needs.