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Luvallgems

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Please pay attention to loved ones if they exhibit sudden weakness and confusion. I lost my Mom on 11/22/20. We went to the ER 10/23/20
discharged because her vitals and basic labs were normal, diagnosed with “generalized weakness”.....We knew something was desperately wrong. We could not get her an appointment with her primary until Monday the 10/26 1st appt., he wanted a scan of her chest that day- no appts. available ( he was very upset and his office got the appt. for us in another town over). Diagnosis loculated plural effusion. She was immediately transported to another hospital of our choice. It was a roller coaster nightmare for my family from that day forward. My family was adamant she be throughly checked out since the other hospital ER basically dropped the ball. She was diagnosed with sepsis and pneumonia. The sepsis protocol was followed, she spent 17 days in ICU and the regular medical floor. It was found that she also had endocarditis from the sepsis that affected her heart valves. The cardiologist said that she would not survive the surgery to remove “vegetation” on the heart valves. My Mom was transferred to rehab. with 3 weeks of Ancef IV per infectious disease Dr. We received a call from the facility that my Mom was found basically unresponsive with a low blood pressure, she was only alert enough to mumble she felt “hot.” She was rushed by ambulance to the hospital ( we wanted the one she had been discharged from) the paramedics decided she was so critical she had to be transferred to the closest hospital. It happened to be the ER that discharged her on 10/23, the ER Dr. called me and said her potassium level was critical at 9 and needed immediate dialysis to save her life. She was put on life support and passed away the next day ( organ failure)....
Please pay attention and read about sepsis. Every minute counts.
 

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@Luvallgems I am so very sorry for your loss. Medical blunders like this took one of my grandmothers and a great aunt. It can be so dispiriting when we realize the people we think have all the answers, really don't. Thank you for taking the time to remind us all to be vigilant when I know your heart must be hurting. I hope your heart is full of wonderful memories of your mother this holiday season.
 
Oh my gosh, I am so sorry @Luvallgems . This is so incredibly sad. Please take care of yourself. Thanking you for the heads up.
 
I’m so sorry for your loss, Luvallgems. I hope memories built over the years will help ease your grief during the Holiday season.

Thank tou for taking the time to share your experiences and warning.
 
@Luvallgems that is truly horrific & sad. I'm so sorry for your loss & how your mother was mistreated.
 
@Luvallgems I am so very sorry for your loss. Medical blunders like this took one of my grandmothers and a great aunt. It can be so dispiriting when we realize the people we think have all the answers, really don't. Thank you for taking the time to remind us all to be vigilant when I know your heart must be hurting. I hope your heart is full of wonderful memories of your mother this holiday season.

The problem was no one was allowed in the ER the 1st time.
A detailed note was sent with her with sudden symptoms and also communication via telephone, made no difference.
 
The problem was no one was allowed in the ER the 1st time.
A detailed note was sent with her with sudden symptoms and also communication via telephone, made no difference.

This whole thing is horrifying! I can't help but wonder if things would have been different if you were allowed in at that first ER. I suspect you are wondering too. Please, please remember it was NOT your fault. You and she were victims of an awful circumstance. I hope the hospital looks at this and improves before more lives are lost. Sending you hugs as you go through this difficult time.
 
I'm so sorry. I lost my father this year too. Sometimes there's nothing that can be done but it is still really traumatizing.
 
I am so very sorry for the sudden and tragic loss of your mom. I know how much it hurts!
I also lost my father due to ineptitude of the ER staff (IMO) and it really heavily sits with me that I should have done something.
With the state of the medical system, we need to be our own advocates. Although even then sometimes the worst happens.
Sending my deepest, sincerest condolences to you and yours. I hope you find peace knowing that you were with her and loved and cared for her deeply. ❤️
 
I am so sorry for your loss, especially under such terrible circumstances. Thank you for trying to help others by sharing your experience.
 
I’m so sorry about your mom @Luvallgems...It’s so heartbreaking to have this happen to your mom. Thank you for taking the time to share this important information with us.
 
I am so sorry! What a nightmare situation you and your family are going through. My heart is with you.
 
I am so sorry to hear this :( I am sorry for your loss. Please take good care of each other right now <3 Hugs.
 
I’m so sorry. Condolences! This is incredibly sad. Sepsis is awful.
 
This whole thing is horrifying! I can't help but wonder if things would have been different if you were allowed in at that first ER. I suspect you are wondering too. Please, please remember it was NOT your fault. You and she were victims of an awful circumstance. I hope the hospital looks at this and improves before more lives are lost. Sending you hugs as you go through this difficult time.

My Mom was begging the ER to let her go home. You have to be there to change their uninformed diagnosis/opinion.
 
So sorry for your loss, and so sorry your family had to go through this. Devastating.
 
I’m so sorry. Condolences! This is incredibly sad. Sepsis is awful.

It can strike anyone. It was staph that took her life.
 
Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your mother.

You are very caring to put out a PSA on sepsis.

I also have found the current protocols in place due to Covid in the ERs and Hospitals are really hurting our elders and adversely affecting their care.
 
I’m so sorry about your mom @Luvallgems...It’s so heartbreaking to have this happen to your mom. Thank you for taking the time to share this important information with us.

Thank you. My Mom had prior health issues but was living on her own. We checked on her every day. She did not have a cough or pain. It’s surreal.
 
Please pay attention to loved ones if they exhibit sudden weakness and confusion. I lost my Mom on 11/22/20. We went to the ER 10/23/20
discharged because her vitals and basic labs were normal, diagnosed with “generalized weakness”.....We knew something was desperately wrong. We could not get her an appointment with her primary until Monday the 10/26 1st appt., he wanted a scan of her chest that day- no appts. available ( he was very upset and his office got the appt. for us in another town over). Diagnosis loculated plural effusion. She was immediately transported to another hospital of our choice. It was a roller coaster nightmare for my family from that day forward. My family was adamant she be throughly checked out since the other hospital ER basically dropped the ball. She was diagnosed with sepsis and pneumonia. The sepsis protocol was followed, she spent 17 days in ICU and the regular medical floor. It was found that she also had endocarditis from the sepsis that affected her heart valves. The cardiologist said that she would not survive the surgery to remove “vegetation” on the heart valves. My Mom was transferred to rehab. with 3 weeks of Ancef IV per infectious disease Dr. We received a call from the facility that my Mom was found basically unresponsive with a low blood pressure, she was only alert enough to mumble she felt “hot.” She was rushed by ambulance to the hospital ( we wanted the one she had been discharged from) the paramedics decided she was so critical she had to be transferred to the closest hospital. It happened to be the ER that discharged her on 10/23, the ER Dr. called me and said her potassium level was critical at 9 and needed immediate dialysis to save her life. She was put on life support and passed away the next day ( organ failure)....
Please pay attention and read about sepsis. Every minute counts.

I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for posting this as my Dad is going to have surgery on an aneurysm located right next to his mechanical heart valve. I’m worried, but I try not to show it. I’ll be praying for your family.
 
Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your mother.

You are very caring to put out a PSA on sepsis.

I also have found the current protocols in place due to Covid in the ERs and Hospitals are really hurting our elders and adversely affecting their care.

Thank you. I agree totally.
 
My Mom was begging the ER to let her go home. You have to be there to change their uninformed diagnosis/opinion.

Oh, gosh. I'm sorry. The doctors are supposed to handle that and make sure the person is safe. That is awful.
 
I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for posting this as my Dad is going to have surgery on an aneurysm located right next to his mechanical heart valve. I’m worried, but I try not to show it. I’ll be praying for your family.

Thank you. Prayers for your father.
 
I am so sorry for your loss, especially under such terrible circumstances. Thank you for trying to help others by sharing your
 
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