TravelingGal
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IG, find that spine. You won''t be able to wear your purdy dress without it.Date: 1/25/2008 6:38:02 PM
Author: Independent Gal
''now it is time for me to tell you...seek your inner Bridezilla. A doormat does not work in white.''T''Gal, you are so right. Spine! Spine! Why have you foresaken me? WHERE IS MY INNER BRIDEZILLA WHEN I NEED HER!?!?!?!? The one time she came out strongly, re my step-sis bringing her drug dealer boyfriend to WP2 - I felt guilty for like, a month afterward.
I guess it''s just having been friends with someone for 25 years without ever having an open conflict, the idea of having one is definitely intimidating. And I think ''is it worth it?'' And I don''t know.
YES, it is worth it. Yanno why? Because if you don''t nip this in the bud now and Birdie comes with Tweety, you will resent her for it. It is MORE THAN REASONABLE to not have children at an adult only function. It is NOT REASONABLE to bring your toddler when your friend does not want him there.
And just to clarify, think Birdie might be confused? Because I went back to your previous post on her and it seems you DID invite her. Birdie seems flighty and maybe didn''t understand you meant HER and not her FAMILY?