TrousseauHorse
Rough_Rock
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I received the attached GIA certificates from a B&M store and would like to get some opinions on what others think. I used the Holloway Cut Adviser, but I am not completely sure I entered in the numbers correctly.
My husband is more comfortable looking at B&M stores so that's where that is coming from. I was willing to give it a try because I needed to get an idea of size/color/etc. in person first and also because when we were shopping for my e-ring we were able to have a local store get us in a good quality diamond and I talked them down to a close enough to online price that I was happy with. That location has since closed and I wouldn't do business with them again anyway based on how they handled things when the setting bent. So part of the appeal of buying from a B&M is having a place I know I can go for repairs and cleaning for all of my jewelry. I have not found a place nearby that is willing to clean my rings if they didn't sell them to me. The store we are looking at has always been happy to clean things while we look and I have had things appraised there, bought some less expensive items, etc.
What I'm looking for is four prong basket set studs, 1ctw or larger (I have an irrational mental block against numbers just under - I feel like it would bother me.) They need to be set in platinum due to metal sensitivities, so that has to be factored into the total purchase price. It turns out I can't really see color, so I'm good down to an I (in person I'm ok down to a J, but then I start having the mental block again) and at SI1-SI2 I can't see a thing (this is where I have gotten past my mental block and am ready to go as low as is practical!)
As far as price, I am flexible but I would like to pay as little as possible to get what I'm looking for, which I guess is mainly sparkle and size since I can't see anything else. I am also willing to pay up to probably 10% more to support a local business so we don't end up in some sort of Terminator-esque post-apocalyptic hellscape where all shopping transactions take place via drones.
So at this store, they first showed us a pair of 1ctw uncertified stones they said were I color, VS2 for $5,000 (including the setting, plus tax)... I told them Costco sells that for $3,000. They were like oh but the cut. I was like well yeah but I don't know anything about the cut of yours either (and I have years of experience dealing with Costco that actually kind of gives me more faith in them.)
Then she showed us certified pairs, two D, SI1 and then two J, VVS2 for $5,000 either way. I told her I couldn't see the color or the clarity difference enough to want to pay extra for high color or clarity.
So that's how we got to the two stones with the attached certificates. They are J, VS2 and J, SI2, which I'm not really ok with. She said $4,000 including the setting, but I think they would take $3,500 plus tax. But as far as I can tell, they are not very good, so that is probably too high still.
I'm kind of feeling like they just want to take advantage of us. But when we bought my e-ring, the old store didn't show me anything even close to what I wanted until I literally just sent them links to the stones I was considering online. Then all of a sudden they were ordering things in and matching prices. But I feel like I shouldn't have to do so much work for them to get them to show me something nice. Is that what it's like for everybody?
I'm just not sure whether I should try to continue to work with them or whether it's like "omg if they're trying to sell you those diamonds then they are clearly bad people and you should run away as fast as possible." Thoughts?
My husband is more comfortable looking at B&M stores so that's where that is coming from. I was willing to give it a try because I needed to get an idea of size/color/etc. in person first and also because when we were shopping for my e-ring we were able to have a local store get us in a good quality diamond and I talked them down to a close enough to online price that I was happy with. That location has since closed and I wouldn't do business with them again anyway based on how they handled things when the setting bent. So part of the appeal of buying from a B&M is having a place I know I can go for repairs and cleaning for all of my jewelry. I have not found a place nearby that is willing to clean my rings if they didn't sell them to me. The store we are looking at has always been happy to clean things while we look and I have had things appraised there, bought some less expensive items, etc.
What I'm looking for is four prong basket set studs, 1ctw or larger (I have an irrational mental block against numbers just under - I feel like it would bother me.) They need to be set in platinum due to metal sensitivities, so that has to be factored into the total purchase price. It turns out I can't really see color, so I'm good down to an I (in person I'm ok down to a J, but then I start having the mental block again) and at SI1-SI2 I can't see a thing (this is where I have gotten past my mental block and am ready to go as low as is practical!)
As far as price, I am flexible but I would like to pay as little as possible to get what I'm looking for, which I guess is mainly sparkle and size since I can't see anything else. I am also willing to pay up to probably 10% more to support a local business so we don't end up in some sort of Terminator-esque post-apocalyptic hellscape where all shopping transactions take place via drones.
So at this store, they first showed us a pair of 1ctw uncertified stones they said were I color, VS2 for $5,000 (including the setting, plus tax)... I told them Costco sells that for $3,000. They were like oh but the cut. I was like well yeah but I don't know anything about the cut of yours either (and I have years of experience dealing with Costco that actually kind of gives me more faith in them.)
Then she showed us certified pairs, two D, SI1 and then two J, VVS2 for $5,000 either way. I told her I couldn't see the color or the clarity difference enough to want to pay extra for high color or clarity.
So that's how we got to the two stones with the attached certificates. They are J, VS2 and J, SI2, which I'm not really ok with. She said $4,000 including the setting, but I think they would take $3,500 plus tax. But as far as I can tell, they are not very good, so that is probably too high still.
I'm kind of feeling like they just want to take advantage of us. But when we bought my e-ring, the old store didn't show me anything even close to what I wanted until I literally just sent them links to the stones I was considering online. Then all of a sudden they were ordering things in and matching prices. But I feel like I shouldn't have to do so much work for them to get them to show me something nice. Is that what it's like for everybody?
I'm just not sure whether I should try to continue to work with them or whether it's like "omg if they're trying to sell you those diamonds then they are clearly bad people and you should run away as fast as possible." Thoughts?